2007-02-26 04:02:14 · 22 answers · asked by mzmarie2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you're asking this question, it probably means you're very young. I know it seems as if your dad is being mean and unfair but please listen to him and obey him in this.
Your father has the responsibility to look out for your well being. He looks ahead at any threat or any obstacle in your path that may derail your entire life. I have heard many, many young ladies who now wish that they had listened to their mom or dad when it came down to who to date. Parents know us on the inside. Yes, you will grow and change and mature. That is a natural process. You will make some mistakes in your choices. And that is natural. But men have an uncanny knack for sizing up other men and boys. There is something in your guy that your dad sees that isn't right for you. Your dad is not your enemy, he's trying to preserve your life and your choices. PLEASE, listen to him. You'll be thankful that you did.
2007-02-26 04:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by moe497 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends how old you are , if you are under 18 listen to ur dad , if u are older than 18 then date whoever but still respect your dad , try and talk to him and make him understand , don't runaway because u won't be happy (u will have no contact with ur family and if u ever had a kid the n they will not see ur parents). Think carefully about whether he is worth it to !!Also think about the reason why ur dad says know maybe it's cuz ur young and he doesn't want u getting serious and the person leaves u and u are heart broken , do u want to spend ur life with this person?
2007-02-26 04:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in love then nothing should get in the way of that. You should find ways to see him and maybe he could earn the respect of your dad over time. After a wile your dad will have to give in to it if its real love. Or maybe your dad is looking out for you and this guy may not be good for you. Otherwise, its yourlife, so live it how you want , with no regrets. Nothing can stop you from being with the one you love!
2007-02-26 04:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be either too young to get into affair matters or this guy whom you are in love with does not have a decent look. You dad must has his reasons for not letting you be with him. You either sit down and talk with your dad and ask him what is his reason or if you are too young, just listen to him and concentrate on your studies. You may think that I am long winded, but this is for your own good.
2007-02-26 04:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask your dad why he doesn't want you to be with him. Don't get upset or flustered. Don't be rude or yell at him. Just talk to him. Try to argue your side rationally and calmly. If you really want to be with this guy, then you should let your dad know. I don't know the entire situation, maybe you're only 15 and he's like 20. Or maybe your dad is just beig over protective. I don't know. But you should really talk to your dad.
2007-02-26 04:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pay attention on your dad and bear in mind to his wish as he's lots experienced than you in this 'liking or loving activities'. greater useful tell each and every thing on your mom. she will assist you to lots, even against your dad's needs.
2016-11-26 00:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're under 17, I would say that you should listen to your dad.. but if you're 18+, that you should be mature enough that you can make your own choices, and thus you should tell your father that you respect his opinion, but that you want to make the decision to date this guy on your own, and that he has to let you sink or swim.
2007-02-26 04:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by in_my_mind2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your dad. He knows what's best for you and do not sneak out with this guy either. You never know what could happen. Your dad has never let you down. He's the one to listen to!
2007-02-26 04:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Scarlight 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Respect your dad's wishes if you still live under his roof. Believe me. There are plenty more fish in the sea. It's not worth pissing your Dad off over.
2007-02-26 04:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by sheshe2387 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yea.... how old r u?? My girlfriends dad won't let her date, but she's 15 and mature so I think she is at a good dating age, and her mom supports us being together so that shows that her dad is just overprotective, but if ure 11 or 12 or maybe 13, or just immature, then u prolly shouldnt go out with him.... daddy always knows best =p (maybe even in the case w/ me and my gf, but that didn't exactly stop us lol).
2007-02-26 04:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by new b-boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋