I have been single for a year, that is not right.
2007-02-26 03:58:30 · 27 answers · asked by Angela D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, Angela! Please don't freak out...you are single and that's OK! It just means that you are not falling for every guy that gives you a first look because you want more than that, right? Cos, let's face it...if you were really up for one night stands, you wouldn't be complaining right now (cos anyone can get that)...OK, so now that we've established that you are looking for more than just a grunting dildo on two legs, here's the problem...good guys are very, very, VERY hard to find these days! But they are around if you look hard enough. And don't expect to meet them in a bar either...maybe in a grocery store, but most likely you will meet him in the strangest place or under wierdest circumstances and, most importantly, when you least expect it!!! So, my advice: relax, take a breath, realize that there is nothing wrong with wanting more than just one night of passion (aka being single), have patience, hang out with your friends...and he will come. I swear. I was in the same situation (only mine lasted longer) and almost gave up...then I met him and we've been dating for quite a while now...and it's great! Anyways...good luck!
2007-02-26 04:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be very right baby -girl. Men are definitely something not to rush into.You've had a year to think about what you want, you have been thinking about what you want Right?? hope so!!Well, just be yourself, don't get fake boobs for God's sake!! Don't dress like fluzzy-puts out wrong signal. Get out there , Put up the radar and let it search. Work on your personality, are you shy?My neice was single for a year or more and she's absolutely beautiful, but she was more focused on getting a good education so she wouldn't have to depend on a man the rest of her life. She's been in school 9-years, met this guy 2-years ago. She's a VIRGIN too and they are set to get married this May. VIRGIN haven't heard that in a long time. She can't wait until the honeymoon night, because it will be SPECIAL to her. She's nervous, but waited and doesn't regret it. He's hung in there to because he knows her and he knows she's worth the wait. Be patient-They will come. Get out there with friends. I'm afraid your're not telling us everything. Best of Luck to You Friend-God Bless
2007-02-26 04:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just be yourself. Being single isn't right or wrong, and how long you've been single isn't necessarily a mile marker of status either. If you're LOOKING for Mr. Right.. chances are you're not going to find him. The best relationships happen when you least expect them. Just relax and take this time to focus on you and your life, goals, future, etc.... that one person will come along before you know it!
:)
2007-02-26 04:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by MrsADM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angela,
Are you lonely...
OR
are you looking to a man to validate your existence?
Your relationship stature notwithstanding, you should not need nor want to change anything about yourself to get noticed.
I've found that I always meet people when I put the least amount of effort in doing so...
Relax...men and women can smell desperation a mile off. "Dry spells" are a self-fulfilling prophecy. You won't stay single for much longer.
2007-02-26 04:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you don't tell us your age, which makes a big difference in my answer. If you are over 21, then I suggest you do this:
1. Groom immaculately
2. Dress nicely
3. Spend an hour a day in the library
4. Spend an hour a day at the gym
5. Honor your parents
6. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
7. Help someone every day
8.Go to Church
9.Invite your friends to Church
10.Take group dance lessons
11.SMILE
Good Luck Angela
2007-02-26 04:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever do things to impress a man the right one will like you for the way you are don't draw attention to yourself for a man to notice you because they might be thinking something different
2007-02-26 04:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are others who's been single longer than yours. You just need to be yourself and see if he will notice you. If there is attraction, then he will. If not, there are plenty of good men out there.
2007-02-26 04:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you need to do is stop focussing on finding a man! when the time is right he will find you, or youll find him. in the meantime why dont you focus on something more important? yourself. find out who you are and focus on being happy and more confident... guys like girls with alot of confidence, as long as it doesnt border being conceitedness.... a great guy will come in time... just dont dwell on it, you will come off as desperate, and the best guys that ive ever met were the ones i wasnt looking for.
2007-02-26 04:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Aura 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For a man to notice you, you shouldn't be afraid to approach him. Take charge, stand out in a positive way, and don't let him forget you.
2007-02-26 04:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, just be yourself. Men usually like women who are outgoing and fun. Talk, but don't talk too much. Talk, but don't talk too little. Be easy going and smile. Laugh but don't laugh too loud. Laugh but don't laugh too little. Be cheerful and dress good. Keep good personal hygiene as well as dental hygiene. When you smile, you want nice white teeth because a smile really attracts men if you know how to do it real good. Good luck my dear!
2007-02-26 04:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋