so my boyfriend and i went out for like 4 months. then he broke up with me. and we got back together. then we broke up. and then we went back out. and we were ok, then we broke up last night again. im unsure of what to do, i still really love him. please help me. if he asks me out should i say yes?? he wants to be friends and thats fine, but i still really like him. should i ask him how he feels??
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2007-02-26 03:49:50 · 23 answers · asked by amber likes glitter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling...please don't let men treat you like that. You deserve better...no matter how much you like him, you have got to let him go. You have to focus on yourself, love yourself and when you decide to spend so much energy on someone else, he better appreciate it (and it is obvious that he doesn't)! So please don't hang out with him at least until you are over him because otherwise he will just keep using you..it's time you put your foot down and start looking for someone else! I know this can be hard, but it will be great in the long run. Good luck!
2007-02-26 03:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole "staying friends" thing is complete BS. The only way it can occur is 1) if enough time has passed that the emotions have cooled or 2) there were no real emotions in the 1st place.
I would talk to him and say "OK what the F are we doing and what do we wanna do?" It may be this is one of those fiery relationships that just cant last too long b4 a big fight
2007-02-26 11:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's how he feels: He only wants to be friends. No more. He's not that into you. If he was, he never would have broken up with you. Chances are, he felt bad, and that's why he got back together with you. He's not going to ask you out again, you just broke up last night. Forget him and move on. Someone that really cares about you won't play with your emotions like that.
2007-02-26 11:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should really think about all the times you went out together. There is something wrong in the relationship because you have broken up so much. You should talk to him and ask him how he feels but only go out with him when you know that it feels right to be with him again.
2007-02-26 11:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer really lays with the reasons for all the break ups. People really need to make up their minds to either stay together or to be friends. If he broke up with you all those times for no reason i would say see ya later. Isnt it too much trouble?
2007-02-26 11:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't go in to details on why you continuously break up and get back together.
It's not a good idea to continue on if a problem exists, it will eventually end badly. Despite what your heart is telling you, listen to your mind. If you don't, then you'll end up wasting time on something that never was and your heart will take all that longer to heal.
2007-02-26 11:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey nver go out wit da same guy no more than two times cause he is using u as a back up look guys do dis all da time if they know thier gf is completly on der nuts they use this as a advantige look don't say yes to him maby he just using u as a way to get some other gurls attiontion so don't SAY YES
2007-02-26 11:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by R34P3R619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need answers on his behavior and his confusion is messing with your mind. One thing you cannot do is proceed with this emotional roller coaster behavior. If he can actually sit down with you and tell you his reasons for his behavior you will gain a better understanding of the situation. If not, then judge him by his actions. Actions speak louder than words. You will eventually have to take a stand that this is unacceptable to you. You love him, and if you do, you deserve to tell him what he needs to know from your standpoint. Its better for him to know that you can't keep doing this anymore.
2007-02-26 11:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you cannot stay together for even a short while then you should not try again. It seems like you are not compatible.
Take care,
Take
2007-02-26 12:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start playing a little hard to get. He is probably breaking up with you to mess around so he wouldn't be cheating. Or jst to have time with his friends cuz he feels when he is with you that he can't please both you and his friends. Eventually he will realize that he deosn't know what he's got until your gone. If you play hard to get, he will feel he is losing you and will be forced to make a better decision.
2007-02-26 11:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋