How do you stop being insecure i worry sometimes when me and my b/f arent all over each other and dont make luv that he doesn't fancy me anymore. I know it can't be like that all the time but i luv the closeness.
2007-02-26 03:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by suzy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dear suzy, Please stop worrying about every little thing in your relationship, time passes too quickly , I am a widow and wish I had your relationship now......Love yourself be positive tell yourself you are special and are loved, someone does not have to prove this every second , be happy and glad, you lucky girl.enjoy
2007-02-26 03:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are mistaking the physical act of making love as being in love.You dont have to be in bed 24/7 to prove to each other that you are in love,it may be just a look he gives,or a phone call when you wasnt expecting it,looking after you when your ill or cuddling up on the sofa to watch a good film,its the little things that count,sex is just a small part of a relationship but shouldnt be the most important,thats lust if it is,not love.Just relax im sure he still fancies you,go with the flow and let your relationship mature into something more meaningful.
2007-02-26 11:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Suzy, you just have to understand that a relationship has many more facets besides sex and cuddling. Sex is the most demonstrative of caring and passion but certainly not the only one. Concentrate on your the other things that make you happy in the relationship and you will see that he does fancy you with or without the closeness.
2007-02-26 12:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can take years, babe. Trust will come and that is what pusheds insecurity out. In the meantime, closeness can come from cuddles as much as from sex, so just BE close as often as you can.
Good luck, Steve.
2007-02-26 12:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Steve J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh if you had to keep making love to hold on to your man you would soon get bored, believe he likes the smile on your face the twinkle in your eye the fact that you love him far more... and if he doesn't then he won't be your man forever...
2007-02-26 12:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
be happy ure relationship aint all about the sex, shows he cares 4 u on a deeper level as well & nt just a physical level
2007-02-26 12:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by helen b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would you rather he be a sex maniac, and all over you all the time. .then get over it and be happy he's even there !!! some girl's act like you are going to use it up ! and here you are whineing . whay whay whay
2007-02-26 11:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by dirtdevil215 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Snap..... I am exactly the same.... relationships are all about sex .... if something is wrong the sex stops....
2007-02-26 12:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing u can do. is talk and tell him how u feel.
2007-02-26 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by s.cullen01@btinternet.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋