I need advice from a short but confident man?

Question

I go to clubs and bars a lot, being that I am a young single male. However being 5 foot 6, I usually feel tiny, and like inferior to other people, like I'm a little kid, so I can't socialize on the same level. What is something i can get into my head in order to socialize with everbody like normal?

Answer 1

Well its a good height cause in Asia people are considered tall with that height.

Answer 2

clubs and bars are not the best place to socialize - to noisy, too busy, too much competition and unless your a hung or a babe you stand little chance of pulling. Find something you have an interest in and then join a club to do with that, that way its easy to socialise. I started volunteering for a theatre - I now know far more people, who are far more interesting than the piss-heads i used to hang out with in bars and clubs, and I am now dating a really fit actress.

Answer 3

Boy, you're a man! Try to accept the things what God has given you. prolong that life and don't procrastinate yourself. Other people is as tall as you but they can make the whole world move with their hands. Only, self-confident can change the way you feel and think about yourself. Don't push your bad thoughts about...how tall are you.....how I am going to socialize..... I tell you what, go on with your natural thinking and don't ever say that you are short. Think positively and give a chance for yourself...Live the way what God has given you......LIFE.

Answer 4

Mind you, this is coming from a woman who is 5'7" and likes tall men.

You're not a little kid, but your height will put you at a disadvantage. Try for shorter women. There are plenty who are 5'2" and feel dwarfed by men who are a foot taller than them.

Also, sit up at the bar. The chairs are the same height, and it's a great equalizer.

Even though I prefer taller men, men who are nice and funny and cute will win over one who is tall and a jerk. Play up your good qualities and play nice.

Answer 5

I am short 5'7" but I don't know how confident I am|


Height is not nearly as important a factor for women as is made out (in the media and magazines and that sort of thing)|

Just stand on principle, but give in when it is merely a matter of no importance|

What turns a woman off is if you try to agree with her on everything and accede to her every wish|

Stand up to her, but only if it is on something you really believe in, and not simply for the sake of being contrary|

She wants to know that you have strenght of your own|


Do this, and you will do OK with women|



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Answer 6

Move to D.C. Seriously, the guys here are much shorter than where I come from. I once dated a Thai guy, and when we walked into a club, he looked around, laughed, and declared, "I'm the tallest guy here -- and I'm ASIAN!" (He had a great sense of humor.)

Happily, the girls here are shorter than average, too.

Answer 7

Hey!!!! I'm 5'7 man. I feel small, now. Just find someone your size and talk with them. There are a lot of short people out there. Trust me!

Answer 8

hey, with that thoughts , why not take a vacation in asia and you'll see people here would look up to you, not just bcoz of ur height but bcoz ur a foreigner. hahaaha... that way, you could gain your self-esteem and confidence back!

Answer 9

I think that you should just be confident. Some women don't really care if your short or tall they like your personality!

Answer 10

USE HEELLESS SHOW, CUT YR HAIR, BE BALD U WILL HAVE SHORT APPEARANCE AND BALDNESS WILL ATTRACT CROWD TO U. OK... BEST OF LUCK..