ok he asked me to come over last night and he called his house to ask his roommate something and some of his friends were over there....he didnt know they were there before he asked me to come over....but i ended up getting ignored for video games...he played them until i left at 12:30! and when i leave he's like "you feel neglected dont you?" and i said "yeah a little" and i get up get my flip flops on and go to leave and he walks me out kinda and he said he that he would make it up to me and that he loved me....but i mean i still got ignored for VIDEO GAMES!!!! should i be mad?
2007-02-26 03:45:42 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Ashley♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and No. Guys love action and have a really hard time not wanting to spend time with their friends doing action things. That is how they beat all the stresses life throws at them, whereas girls get together and talk. Ok, but, it was not appropriate for him to neglect you when he asked you over. Obviously he is immature. You did the right thing by leaving. Wait for him to call you. Don't rant and rave, just tell him in a non emotional way that it was not cool to ask you over and then ignore you for a video game. Then don't say anything else. If he apologizes then forgive him, if he is defensive, the next time he calls you need to give him the gift of missing his call and not calling back. Make him call you again. And you can just say I'm not going to be treated that way. Keep it up until you know he is really sorry.
2007-02-26 04:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be upset, but realize that it's not something that big. I mean if it was something he was ALWAYS doing then I would say you have a big problem, but something like this you need to just get over. I'm sure there are times you do things to upset him....right?
2007-02-26 11:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he is cares more about video games then he does you then the guy isn't worth it he just doesn't know what he is gonna miss out on! You will find someone better and you will be happy with him!
Hope I helped!
Aly Girl
2007-02-26 11:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Aly Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask for a turn next time.. play some games with him
2007-02-26 11:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by steph 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i mean not maaadd but a lil mad is ok, i mean he totally ditched you...why put up with that, he needs to seperate the time he has with you and video game time..
2007-02-26 11:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by dat_sweetmami 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES!! What the heck did he want you over there for if he was going to ignore you. Go ask him!
2007-02-26 11:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya next time, you make plans don't show up tell him your friend called and you went out with them instead.......
2007-02-26 11:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea if I were in your situation I would probably be mad. If I were u I would go and talk to him about it.
2007-02-26 11:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by ☼♀♥♠♣B.M. ♫♪♦♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeh, you should be mad coz you went over for nothing.
2007-02-26 11:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. yes because you got ingored and no because it wasnt his fault his friends were over.
2007-02-26 11:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by teddybearbigboy21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋