This girl and i have been pretty flirty recently and i've admited i have a crush on her to her, i think she likes me but im not sure. My girlfriend and i have recently broken up and shes being nice and supportive and all. I want something to happen between her and I but im not sure if she wants anything. I don't want to do anything that might hurt our friendship so i really need to know if she is ready or even wants to go out with me.
2007-02-26 03:38:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you friends? be yourself, be honest but most of all BE CONFIDENT. Tell her how much you like her. No matter what her decision is RESPECT IT, and stay friends. If the chemistry is good between the both of you, you will eventually be there for her, and all will be well.
DON'T BE INSECURE, DON'T HOLD IN YOU FEELINGS LET THEM OUT.
Even if nothing happens right away, accept it, and stay friends. Keeping hoping, keep thinking about what you want.
LASTLY, BE STRONG IF IT BLOWS UP IN YOUR FACE, DO NOT BE ANGRY, ASHAMED or SELF LOATHING. It is your god given right to be happy, not every friendship is intimate.
If other girls see what your doing, they may try to catch you. if your not INSECURE, and show CONFIDENCE.
The ladies are always prayed upon by men just want in their pants. Don't be this guy, they like the real thing, they will be cautious. Don't give up, let your heart lead the way, the ideas are in your head, FOLLOW THEM.
2007-02-26 03:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was the girl and really liked you and really wanted something to happen... I would still be scared that I would end up being just your rebound. The way you would convince me otherwise is to keep it casual, but committed. Go to the movies and buy me popcorn. Don't ask other girls to the movies if I had plans. Go with a group dancing - but dance with me. You don't have to ask me what my intentions are... YOU'RE the one who just came out of a relationship. If you were serious about me, you'd take the time I would need to know that you were serious about ME.... and not just looking for a way to get over your ex, or show your ex that you've moved on, etc. Smile. Talk. Listen. It will evolve. Be true & sincere and gentlemanly. Be respectable. Girls dig that.
2007-02-26 03:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by logical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of relationships start out as just friends. Keep it at just that. What do the two of you have in common, do you have similar likes? Ask her if she'd like to go roller blading, movies, lunch, skiing, snowboarding (depending on where you live), keep it simple like friends. Don't make it sound like a date, go with a other friends. May be she thinks your not ready for a relationship right now. After a few outings you should be able to see if it can be more than just friends.
2007-02-26 03:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy_cruzir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people fell very confuse about a relationship, even if you think... you are still thinkin' and there's no action. So maybe the best thing you can do is ASK, so you're feelings will be no longer anxious. It's very important for you to think "If you want to be in a relationship, to be out of another", that will not work, 'cause people always mix feelings. Take care.
2007-02-26 03:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by algothus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly ask her, tlk 2 her 1 on 1 not oveer the phone or msn, lik sit her down nd tell her how u feel and ask her nd tell her all the stuff uve just said .dnt get 2 emotional wit her incase she mite not lik u in that way nd get freaked out nd spoil ur friendship, do this right(gentle, calm, honest) and she will tell u how she feels .
Gd luck!!! xxxxxxxxx
2007-02-26 03:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl i could help you with this one. It's good that you wanna be friends with her. But if you really like her you should take a chance. Ask her on a date. If she says yes make the date a friend date. If you go on a date with her again make each date more romantic. But don' t forget to be comfortable.
2007-02-26 03:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Whitt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way your going to find out is to take the first step. Just be nice..ask her....that couldn't hurt your friendship.
2007-02-26 03:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Oppna to tal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, go ASK HER! Shes the only one who knows the answer. You need to be a man and put yourself out there. Just be honest, and whether or not shes intrested it will be a big plus knowing that you were serious enough to ask her and considered your friendship.
Good Luck
2007-02-26 03:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her.
Say maybe " I think we really get on and would like to take our relationship further - what are yours thoughts or feelings about us?"
Ask her maybe " would she prefer to keep the friendship as is or would she like to take it a bit further too".
2007-02-26 03:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by The Best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever tried asking her???? Silly. Or at least hint....Like ask her out on a date, hint that it will be somewhat NOT CASUAL or platonic. If she agrees than she probably likes you. If she gets the idea that you want to go out with her as MORE than friends and she says no, she's probably not feelin' you dude.
2007-02-26 03:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋