2007-02-26 03:01:06 · 24 answers · asked by Dominic W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but I wouldn't trust you either.
Being suggestive to another girl, can be detrimental to a relationship. Even though you to are not or have not done anything, the thouth is still in your girl's mind. That's gonna be something hard to remove from her memory. She knows you have a tendancy or a mind, to be with other women.
2007-02-26 03:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be talking to other females in a sexual way! No wonder she doesnt trust you. Now it may take a while for you to earn her trust again. That is if she gives you another chance to be trusted. Why would you even talk sexually with another female when you are in a relationship with one? Maybe you are missing something in your own or you are just losing interest. If thats the case you need to end it and stop dragging her along. Its for the best. If it was only innocent and you will not do it again because you learned your lesson then you need to do some trust building for a while! Good luck
2007-02-26 03:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not surprised, why was you talking to another girl in a sexual manner if you have a girlfriend? This talk should all be for her, if you feel like you need to flirt or do things with other girls you should'nt be in a relationship. Not surprised your girlfriend dont trust you as trust has to be earnt! Sorry blunt but true!
2007-02-26 03:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be talking to a girl in a sexual way. I think you are confused at the fact that talking to someone else in that kind of way is NOT okay. She shouldn't trust you.
2007-02-26 03:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck with that...believe me, if I caught my man doing anything dishonest---he would be paying for it hard for at least 6 months.
It's hard to regain trust when you've lost it---and whether or not you and this girl are "doing nothing" now, the most important thing to your girlfriend is that you lied, and how can she ever believe anything you say from now on?
If you truly care about your girlfriend, you will stick it out and try to get her trust back---but just know that it will be hard.
2007-02-26 03:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by K P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three things:
1.) You made a choice when you started dating this girl who's mad at you; you obviously didn't admonish her to accept other women in the equation.
2.)You started a seduction on a new girl without ending the first relationship or letting it be known that something was in the works. And,
3.) You were at first neglectful and then just plain DUMB enough to get caught, because you thought you were slick or wanted to have your cake and eat it too...so why are you whining? Eat the cake you got and be done with it!
2007-02-26 03:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to know it's just flirting and not you trying to hook up. Why don't you sign a contract with her that says if the mood hits her she can throw you out of your house and keep half the value of all the money you made and your possesions, dating back to the day you met. ( You see why they are hung up on anniversaries.) Then she may trust you, or at least she won't be too worried. This is a time proven remedy for girlfriend trust issues. May God be with you.....
2007-02-26 03:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tim O 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not trust you either. If you want to be a player, be a player but do not expect your girlfriend, or any girl to be "true" to you.
The really sad part is you are most likely only worried about this because you got caught.
Grow up and be a man, you either want to keep your girlfriend as your only girlfriend; or you do not. It will not work if you even pretend to play with others.
2007-02-26 03:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust you if I were her either! How would you feel if you caught her talking dirty to some guy? Wouldn't you feel a little weary about trusting her? You screwed up. Deal with it. But don't get mad at her... because seriously, she is entitled to not trusting you. I suggest that if you seriously care for her, you work on getting her trust back. Work HARD.
2007-02-26 03:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica La La Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on what did you honestly expect?Your girl to say ok baby go ahead and talk to her like that, i don't care???Man for real that is f*cked up.How you gonna have a girlfriend and talk to another female like that if your not "doing anything."If i was her i wouldn't trust you and i don't blame her at all.If you were going to do that then i think you should reconsider having a girlfriend because she doesn't deserve that at all.I mean how would you like if she talked to another guy like that...yea i don't think you would.Its all about respect.If you cant respect her and keep doing that then you need to leave her alone because all your going to do is just hurt her and make things worse.
2007-02-26 03:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by boriqua_052005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋