Alright, im a nice guy i dont cheat or lie, im polite and not ugly. Im going to be 21 years old in a month. im still in school, and i have a good paying job at a mojor energy company as a buyer. I live by myself in an apartment in downtown. My question is why do girls pretend like they like you. For example im dating this girl sorta and she sends me cute tx and emails and messages and stuff and will try and make plans with me and we get together and everything is fine, and then i will call here and she wont call back for like 5 days. then she will call me like nothing happened. She like is a binge caller/txter or somthing cause then she will like lay low before she calls me again. am i just being weird about this or what? ladies explain to me what do women between the ages od 18 and 21 want!?
2007-02-26 02:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by matt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what seems to me is that she is luring u in and then moves out leaving u wanting more. u have prollly everything that a girl may want so the girl either is playing so u want her (since ur such a catch) or she i really busy(highly doubt it) or she is simply being a player and is playing the field while u 2 are dating. i hope everything works out and just so u know; guys are REALLY confusing too :D
2007-02-26 03:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're a nice guy. But it sounds like you have stumbled onto a girl that is a "player" or she's playing "hard to get".
If this girl is younger than you, it could kind of explain it---she's probably just having fun and not looking for a relationship, and is probably dating others.
Believe me, once you turn 21, you will be out partying and may not want a girlfriend either.......
If you try to be cool about her not calling it will help--it's hard, but it will help.
2007-02-26 11:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by K P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing this because you're such a great guy. I know this sounds confusing but we're dealing with females here! Girls actually like bad boys. For whatever reason, we tend to pine and cry over guys who won't call, cheat on us and generally treat us badly. We tend to look down our noses at good guys. I don't why this is, I'm just telling you what I know. Braek up with her, this isn't a relationship. Find yourself a good girl like you who'll deserve you.
2007-02-26 11:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. I think that she may or may not have feelings for and its freaking her out how her mind plays those tricks on her. I know I do. It happens to me a lot. You meet someone things are great and then you go out and they aren't how you built them up in your head. I am not sure I answered this for you, but women confuse themselves, we are our own worst enemies. We almost always negate a good feeling we have, I think its hormones lol.
2007-02-26 11:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by gooberf24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not cool to pretend nothing happen,ask her why did she not call you and ask her what does she want from you, and if she does not answer you then my advice is to loose all contact with her,meaning don't call her don't answer her call don't email her or anything because she sounds like a player.
2007-02-26 15:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls pretend to like you when they want something from you. what you have to figure out is what this girl wants from you and if you are willing to give it to her.
Sorry, but all women are a little different and want different things. If you're interested in her, find out what she specifically wants
2007-02-26 11:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they just have issues. u can be the nicest guy in the world and no matter what they just have problems!!
2007-02-26 11:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kermits Play Pal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋