I have enough bridesmaid already, but is it necessary to include my fiance's sister?
2007-02-26 02:55:51 · 13 answers · asked by Miki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Have you considered your fiances opinion on this matter? i understand it is an important position but it is his day too should he not have some say in the matter. Unless of course you dont get along with her. If things are amicable it would be gracious of you to include her in some way and make her feel that you accept her. Depending on her age there are many things that she can do at the wedding. up to 8 flower girl 8-17 jr bridesmaid (does not require an escort) guest book attendant, usher (I wore a tux and it was so cute) if the ring bearer is young she may be the person to assist him in his walk with the pillow and then seat herself once he is in position etc.. but I would definitely talk to your fiance
2007-03-01 17:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by galixcysmagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not mandatory, but it's a beautiful gesture on your part and your husband and his family will think so much more highly of you that it's worth not having one of your less close friends be a bridesmaid. What you'll gain from asking your future husband's sister is much more (and longer lasting) than what you'll gain from asking the bridesmaid you're least excited about.
This is a gesture that make you look like a classy bride, and not just to his side of the wedding.
Have a great wedding! ;o)
2007-02-26 03:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you have who you'd like to have. If she's young (between 12 - 17) you could always make her a jr. bridesmaid. Jr. bridesmaid's don't have a partner, they just walk by themselves and it's more or less a token position.
2007-02-26 03:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any of my fiance's sister in my wedding.... he has 5 of them, 2 real and 3 step. I didn't want to have to pick and chose plus I am not friends or close with any of them. Just be prewarned- she might be mad about it. One of my fi sister was bitc*hing about not being in the wedding.. which is funny cause she never has any money and just got off of welare so why the heck would she want to blow money on a dress??!!! LOL
But just do what makes you happy and what you want.... someone will alway bi*tch about something...
2007-02-26 03:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 22:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by lichtenberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you don't have to include any one you don't want to include maybe give her something else to do like give out programs or something like that, even thought she is not part of the wedding party she will still feel part of the wedding...
2007-02-26 03:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by yomyr2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did and I regret asking her because she gets on my nerves. You have whoever you want to have in your wedding party. It's a nice thing to do by asking her, but only if it makes you happy.
2007-02-26 03:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by cubanirishgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't HAVE to, but it would be a nice gesture. You could always have her included in some other way.
2007-02-26 04:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to, but it is a nice gesture to becoming part of the family.
of course if you hate the girl then don't have her in the wedding party.
2007-02-26 06:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be the most wonderful thing you can do, if she is of a proper age, and you should have put her near the top of your list, not as an afterthought.
2007-02-26 08:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋