Been dating my man close to 2months,he recently talked about getting serious with the relationship.....getting committed having his babies etc but on a frid he told me he wasnt gona see me during the weekend coz his mate was throwing a surprise party for his bro who was turnin 40.i agreed to not seeing him and i ended up hangin out with my gurls but the very same sat i foned him like around 10 pm just to check up on him but he didnt ansa my calls so i thot he ws probably avin fun and didnt wana be disturbed but i tried his line again like 3 in the mornin he still didnt ansa.
i kinda got concerend so i foned him the next day,i think i left close to 20 missed calls he finally ansad around 8pm.i asked why he wasnt pickin up mi calls,he gave me a funny excuse about him hanging out with the guys watchin football. i was very upset that i shouted at him and he hang up.i foned him like later on so that i could apologise but he didnt even say much to me and hang up again. help!
2007-02-26 02:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is stringing you along - nobody talks about getting serious and then doesn't take you to a party on a weekend and then not answer the phone. Sounds to me as if he has other fish to fry. Don't waste anymore time on the loser - find someone who will want to be with you.
2007-02-26 03:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he probably does want to end it if you've only been together 2 months and you called him that many times in a couple of days. He might have talked about getting serious but give him some time!!!
What was wrong with leaving a message the first time saying get back to me when you check your phone and have a minute free? Then you wouldn't have to call him so many times and make him feel stifled or stalked.
Maybe let him cool off for a few days, then if he hasn't contacted you, text him to explain you are sorry for your behaviour at the weekend, you just got concerned when he wasn't answering his phone and in future you will realise he may be doing something with his mates and not be able to get back to you so quickly, say you hope it hasn't ruined things between you and you hope you can carry on as normal, albeit a little more chilled out with him.
2007-02-26 03:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you really shouldn't be talking about having babies after 2 months in a relationship!!! Unless you're biological clock is ticking.....
Also, it's never a good idea to call a guy 20+ times in an evening. Trust me, I've been there, and in the end it only makes you more crazy as the night goes on! I know it's hard, but try not to do that!
If he has no regard for your feelings, then get rid of him!! The good news is that you've only been together for 2 months, so you can move on more easily.
2007-02-26 02:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by K P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when will you girls understand that guys dont like to be bugged, just because a phone rings doesn't mean it has to be answered.
you only been going out 2 months and already you are giving him a hard time because he wanted a weekend with the lads.
if you carry on like this you'll scare them all off.
now he thinks you are some kinda bunny boiler that is going to nag him all the time and he is probably thinking of ending it now. sorry to be so blunt.
2007-02-26 03:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds like you don't trust him. YOU said you phoned to CHECK UP ON HIM!!!! he was out on a night with his mates and would have got some serious ribbing from them if you kept phoning him so i imagine that's why he may not have answered his phone.
You phoning him that many times is far too excessive. I wouldn't have bothered phoning him whilst he was out with his mates.
You need to either trust him or walk away.
2007-02-26 03:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, i think that you should relax and calm down..its always important in a relationship to give the guy some space and to trust him and not disturb him too much.. and maybe u should try to be more optimistic esp if u know that he really loves you and cares about you.. all the best..
2007-02-26 03:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by mystic world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is proabably just a bit upset, give hi time 2 come around n dont b 2 clingy also he might think dat u dont trust him so just try talkin 2 him 2 sort it out
2007-02-26 02:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by emma w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not Ur fault. that's Ur man so u would want 2 know how he is. but if he is be in funny well .i hate 2 say this .love but he could be with someone else.
2007-02-26 03:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by s.cullen01@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shown yourself to be clingy and needy, so he might want to end it now ...
Next time be a little more mature about it.
2007-02-26 02:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you feel you had to check up on him so much, if you trust him you shouldn't need to do that
before you worry about whether he is thinking about finishing it, worry about whether he is the right guy for you, if he is you should trust him
xxx
2007-02-26 03:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋