2007-02-26 02:49:50 · 13 answers · asked by Alex N 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make anyone love you. Your best bet is to move on and find someone who will let you put it in her stink hole.
2007-02-26 02:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahh, One of the questions that every one wants to know the answer to, but some feel too stupid to ask or think its impossible.
You cannot of course "make" someone love you, unless you have magic powers or something and even then its immoral. If you will go to whatever lengths to get her back, then the logical answer would be to become what she is looking for. But it can't be that easy. She would see right through it because she already knows the real you. So changing yourself would make you desperate and clingy to her. And as all girls agree, we want you to take it like a man and move on. So if this girl happens to be an exgirlfriend, just hang it up. She will have to realize it herself. Just be a great guy in other girls' eyes. Then the territorial thing will kick in. Women are as territorial as men if not more. We just get emotional instead of angry. Then she'll be saying, "Yeah, I was in love with that great guy, what went wrong?" Therefore opening the door for a new beginning.
Now then..if you haven't already dated this girl (seeing as you didn't add too much detail to the question) You can almost use the same technique but trying to look good in front of peticularly her. Find out who she is and what she likes from a third party, so it seems like you were already coincedently into the same stuff. But don't take it so far that you can't sing the harmony to her melody after you get together. And by the way, girls like the romantic sweep her off her feet stuff.
2007-02-26 11:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want a girl to fall for u, just be yourself. Girls love it when guys don't pretend to be someone there not. Also show her that you can have a good time together. Find out what she likes to do and take her out to her favorite restaurant or to her favorite nightclub. If it was meant to be everything will click. Don't move to fast though. take it at a safe pace. That means no making out on ur first date. Let her know that you want her to feel comfortable around you. Just focus on finding common interests and everything will flow comfortably.
2007-02-26 10:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you try just being you and if it is there it will happen, otherwise you may get one of those pesky pieces of paper that ask you to kindly stay 500 feet away or risk going to jail where Bubba the human tri-pod will try and make you love him.
2007-02-26 10:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by karenlanea2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry dude- you'd need a miracle to force someone to love ya buddy
2007-02-26 10:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by BitterEnding 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You should be looking for somebody who is intersted in you and not trying to figure out how to manipulate somebody who doesn't. You make no sense at all.
Now, if you find somebody who likes you, we can talk about what you have to do to keep her.
2007-02-26 10:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant make her but you can try just be good to her. You know women are special angels and should be treated as such.
2007-02-26 10:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't make anyone feel something that isn't in their own hearts. If se doesn't have feelings now she may never have them.
2007-02-26 10:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't make her love u!!
2007-02-26 10:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Hi!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put a gun to her head.
Seriously dude, you can't 'make' anyone do anything.
2007-02-26 10:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋