he grabs my side, he hugs me and rubs my back, tried to kiss me, massaged my shoulders...i try not to notice him but he does this to me i dont do it to him...
and ya hes married but i did back up when he tried to kiss me...what do i do? cause i do like him but i wish he wasnt married... its kinda hard to forget about him cause we work together...
2007-02-26 02:34:35 · 16 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you a right, he is married, even though you wish he was not. Do not avoid him, jus simply tell him it is not going to happen and you want him to stop making flirting and messing with you. Plus, how good of a guy is he if he is not true to his wife? Come on girl, you can do better!
2007-02-26 02:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is no good to get involved with a guy who is married and also at work. Unless you love each other then stay away. And remember this all is fair in love and war. But just make sure that you can WIN THE WAR or don't start id OK XXXXXX
2007-02-26 02:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation. He's married so therefore, he is not your's to have.
Most married men will never leave their wives, the ones that do can never be trusted. If he's willing to play around on her, he's more than capable of doing the same thing to you.
You need to make it clear to him that he is over-stepping the boundaries....please don't let yourself get involved with this man. Find someone who is un-attached, you'll be alot happier and life will be alot less complicated.
Just my opinion. :-)
2007-02-26 02:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO, by allowing him to continue to do those things, you are sending him signals that it is OK for him to keep doing. Eventually it will progress, and in a moment of poor judgment, you may become a homewrecker, even though it is not your intent. I'm sure you do like him, but he is not an option. You need to be firm, and consistent. You need to tell him no, and mean it........or become the home wrecker.
2007-02-26 02:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you ignorant? You have no business even liking him. There is no compliment in a married man hitting on you ... in fact you should take it as an insult! Remember what goes around comes around and when it comes around you better watch out ... that could be your husband someday if those are the kind of men your attracting. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 02:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all... married or not. you never get your meat where you make bread. "dont date where you work" second if you are doing nothing to stop the physical contact no matter how small you are just as bad as he is.
if you had no idea he was married it would be a different stroy, but you do know so cut it out
2007-02-26 02:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by dgr0919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! run as fast as you can... do NOT ever, ever, EVER trust a married man... if you WOULD get with him... when the next girl comes along... he will do the same to her...please for real girl, dont let him do this to you! there are SO many fish in the sea... he is being a creep!!
2007-02-26 02:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Saritah Bonita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to TELL him to back off. who cares if you like him its too bad. dont ruin his marriage.
You need to flat out tell him to back off, physically show him that you are not interested, report him to management for sexual harrassment or something.
do not even bother with your little crush on him because he is not good. if he is attempting to cheat on his wife why would he treat you any better?
it will just lead to disappointment. he only wants to get laid.
please just get over it and tell himto leave you alone
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think about if you do decide to go out with him, no doubt he will try to get laid on the first date and then he will just dump you to the side bacause HE IS MARRIED. he is looking for cheap fun and tring to get it from you...
im dure you think better of yourself than that dont you?
2007-02-26 02:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to tell him to back off and be sure to report him so that there will be a record of it. Otherwise he may try to get you in trouble first if you don't give in to him.
2007-02-26 02:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the next time you see him, that he must bring a signed permisson slip from his wife, and you have to actually speak with her before he can continue this crap. He's playing with you and your emotions so be careful before you end up getting burned.
2007-02-26 03:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋