I don't know what to do. The past two days I've been really stressed out. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5months and he treats me so good. But I've been feeling real insecure. A month ago he cheated with his ex and they kissed. He told me right after he did it and cried and said he was sorry. We broke up for about a week. I love him so much and I haven't felt this way for a guy for a while. I'm not sure why I have such ideas as him cheating. We call each other every hour he always says he loves me and is always home. His best friends told me that it was just a mistake and that it won't happen again. He told me he wouldn't speak to her and I don't know I kind of believe him but then again I don't. What should I do about my insecurity issues and can I trust him?
2007-02-26 02:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Mita G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel for you girl. firstly i would say that you need to stop addressing that your insecurity is an issues. your boyfriend kissed someone for that reason alone u will not trust him ever time his out you will think he is with someone.you said that his best Friend told you that it was a mistake but you need to here it him him. ask him y he done it and what he was thinking about when he did it get him to answers all your questions.he will have to earn your trust back as he slowly does that your insecurity will fade it will take time but if he cares about you he will do it.
2007-02-26 03:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by patricia t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt the same wen i got to about the 5 month mark on my relationship. best thing to do is just hang in there, give it a couple of weeks, soon enough you will know!
2007-02-26 10:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i've had the same problem with my gf i cheated on her adn i lied about it so she was pissed at me and she had all right. you should trust him again he wont do it again he cares about you to much to do it again. he loves you. the insecuruty will fade with time you can trust him again give him time.
2007-02-26 10:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater! and he knows you will forgive him so he will do it again ! trust me
2007-02-26 10:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by live in the magic of life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋