This guy's a player, and whenever i see him he says things like "you never call me"... however he is the one who always talks about getting together and never comes through. i dont want to call or text him b/c i think i'll look desperate and stupid. but im wondering what he thinks? any guesses?
2007-02-26 02:28:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a player, thats what players do. He WANTS you to call him, thats how the trap works. Then he has sex with you and doesn't call and waits for you to call again, and the cycle repeats. Good luck.
2007-02-26 02:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the grounds they asked you to call them!!
If he is a player and gets it often..........he does not care much other than he has another option besides the date he was trying to get that night anyway!!
If he is a looser and many claim to be players but are loosers because they are not willing to tell the truth to girls about what they want to have in their lives, might be waiting to see how much you care to play you tooo!!
If a guy really likes you and is obvious, and after a while for what ever reason he decides to finaly pop the question to call him and you never call!!! Most likely he will go crazy waiting for that phone call!
If he is a player don't try to change him....he will change when he realizes is not for him...to be a player!!!!
Good luck!!
2007-02-26 10:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks he's a player but it doesnt sound like he either 1)has the balls to commit to a relation ship and just wants a piece or 2) He is just leading you on and wants you to think you have a shot
3)just fronts in front of his friends and really doesnt have the nerve to ask you and doesnt just want a piece in which case there are ways to make the first move without looking desperate....tell him you'll call him than give him a few day before you call and just have a conversation dont talk about going out or anything like that and if he tries to steer the convo in that direction than just either steer him away from that or make up some excuse why you have to get off the phone and when you do go out dont be to quick to give it up test his loyalty and faithfulness.....not every horn ball is only out for a piece of *** but if he is a good guy and you tell him you want to wait than he will wait....good luck
2007-02-26 10:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the player just wants to feel important, wants to be sure he has the love of all. inside he has a very low self worth. needs that validation. never get involved with a player he will always be looking, and being with others. if he were truly interested he would be calling u, he may be just too busy being a player.
2007-02-26 10:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a real player he will be wondering why you aren't calling him like most girls do, so he will be paying you more attention because to him you are a test, but once he does get you that will be the end of the fun
don't give him the time of day, find someone who likes you for you and not because you are harder to get than most girls
good for you, xxx
2007-02-26 10:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no telling what he's thinking. But, you are probably right - He's probably just a player stringing you on. Met way too many guys like him. Fallen for 'em, too. My advice would be to just leave him behind and get on with your life.
2007-02-26 10:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by wanderingthru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why guess ask his dumb *** whats up.
You are a fool if you try to guess or aks others what a person thinks.
They are the ones to ask, and if it is not worth feeling a fool or chancing that you look desperate, I would say your really not interested. Your not desperate by asking him, your only desperate if he says he isn't interested and you persue him...Lets
2007-02-26 10:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by letsget_dangerous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking if this guy is a player and he complains you never call, make him make the plans. You shouldn't have to.
2007-02-26 10:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Twiztnin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with a player anyways? get yourself a real man who isn't going to play games with your head. sounds like he's acting like a child.
2007-02-26 10:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the player you're calling someone, it just isn't him.
2007-02-26 10:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋