I have not had sex before and I am nervous. Will it hurt? What do I need to know?

Answer 1

it may or may not hurt -- its difficult to know everyone is different --- please never rush ---- its quick enough as it is (if you are both virgins) ---- always use protection and dont trust the guy to bring it ----- it will get much better as you get more experience and know what pleases you ---- i dont know you how old you are all i can say is if you dont feel comfortable dont do it and be safe ---- best wishes

Answer 2

Try to relax and enjoy it.. do not be nervous.. =) You love the person you are with and they are going to make it special for you. Tell your partner to take it slow. It will hurt a bit but it is nothing major after a few times it won't hurt. You might need some lubrication so have that handy just in case.

Answer 3

It will hurt. Don't let people fool you by saying it won't. And you'll probably bleed for a while. Not to scare you, but it's just the truth. Tell your guy (if he doesn't know already, and ESPECIALLY if he's more experienced than you) that it's your first time. If he's more experienced he'll know to take it slow and to give you more time to "warm up", so to speak. If he's in the same boat you are, I think you should just take control. That way YOU'RE in charge of speed/depth/etc and know what'll be comfortable for you. You won't have to worry about hurting him.

Answer 4

You need to know if this person is really someone you want to remember for the rest of your life as the person you surrendered your virginity to. It would be less painful mentally and physically if you did it with someone who loved you and would be tender and sensitive to your apprehension. If done slowly and at your pace there should be minimum discomfort. It should not be attempted if you are not sexually aroused or just want to get it over. Rather be in the mood to surrender yourselt to someone you love and let it be a beautiful thing. Don't forget to insist on portection for him and use lots of lube. Good luck.

Answer 5

Well it depends on the person as to weather it will hurt..

As for the rest, you need to make sure your doing it for the right reasons and with the right person, you need to make sure he wears protection and that he knows what he's doing and if not read up on a government website... theres plenty of sources out there to help you..

Good luck and don't be nervous.

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Answer 6

you need to know that you MUST use protection. and you must be sure that the person will understand and take into consideration that you are a virgin.
only do it if your ready of course. and try to enjoy it!
it shouldnt really hurt, maybe a little but not much. you will probably feel sore the day after but that will quickly go away.
good luck!

Answer 7

you need to know the person you are going to have sex with. you need to be sure that both of you are responsible enough to use protection and to deal with consequences (std, pregnancy, unwanted child, etc).

Answer 8

First, how old r u? If you are young, you need to talk to your mom, a counselor at school or your doctor. That's what you need to know for now.

Answer 9

no!!!!!!!!!!! plz, dont do nething until ur married 2 the right person, and kno that there's a committment. Once you give it up...u can never get it back. that's a part of you that will never ever again be urs. value urself. ur body is ur temple, its what u cherish. dont let nething and ne1 have control of it. plz...dont do nething until ur married.

Answer 10

come to me babe i will let u know everything