ive been with my fella for 4 months, he he has just given me a car,
anyway he didnt seem himself the other day, hes in the raf and i know he was very busy, i texted and asked if everything was ok he said yes fine just chill.
so i texted back and said "only asking cos u seem to have been funny with me the past few days" after that he hasnt replyed and he hasnt since and its been a day and a half now! we havent gone one day without speaking or texting each other since we met so im so unsure as what to do.
shall i call him? or shall i leave it up to him? we are both 25
please help!!! i just dont know what to do????
he was the one who first said that once we fall in love we will move in together...ect, hes been planning it all, hes even spoke about getting married and having kids! any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks xx
2007-02-26
02:22:35
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maybe you should just give him some space and time to calm down, he will get in touch when he is ok again
some guys just dont like to show there feelings especially if they are upset or worried about something
dont worry
im sure he will be ok soon
xxx
2007-02-26 02:28:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I'd give him til this evening, then call. But don't panic, the job does entail stress days, whatever his trade is. I've managed to ignore the missus for 2 days (after not missing a day) and I endured the wrath of innumerable voice messages. It was simply the need to chill out as work had drained me a little, and sometimes it's just much easier to leave the explaining til a little later. Sorry, but that's just from my own experience in the RAF and with my girl. I certainly wouldn't draw anything sinister from it....A car? damn, I'm a bad boyfriend.....
2007-02-26 02:31:24
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answered by Anonymous
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calm down, take a deep breath and relax. Give the guy some space. He will call or text when he has time. Don't be a clinging vine that is gonna choke him to death. The guy must be serious to have given you a car and he hasn't called to ask for it back. Just relax.
2007-02-26 03:21:48
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answered by pnut 3
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wow i dont know where to start... there are about 5 reasons why he is acting like that
1. hes working
2. hes nervous about something ( proposeing? since he talked about kids and getting married )
3. he droped his cell in the water.
but dont worry about it because everything will be alright.. because a guy doesnt say anything like that without meaning it.. because if i was talking about kids then yep he really loves you..
and yea call him and ask him if something is up and tell him that he can trust anything with you...
See if that helps xD
Exco12
2007-02-26 02:33:23
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answered by Exco12 3
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seems like he might be regretting moving so fast with you. give him some space and he'll come round.
maybe he has work stress, if he's in the raf he's not likely to have a normal day in the office and he may be feeling the strain a little.
give him space, guys hate to be crowded and bugged.
2007-02-26 02:28:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi Rose,
Hmm,, sounds rather strange to me,, it is possible that he is tied up with something job related.. but,,,, I dont know...
If I were you, this would be a good time to step back and look at the whole relationship.....before going any further...
What do you know about him, his family, ect ect.... I wouldnt rush into anything..... remember as pretty as roses are, they have thorns !!
good luck
2007-02-26 02:29:21
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answered by eejonesaux 6
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You dont look like an English Rose.....More like an Japanese Lotus.....Anyway....
I think you should call him.... remember he is in the RAF so he might not be able to talk as much as he would like or... he may have been disiplined for talking to you every day as it could affect his work.....
2007-02-26 02:36:48
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answered by Fox Hunter 4
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Well,he's in the RAF so that could be enough for him to concern himself with just now;When you consider where he may have to go..If you two really have fallen in love,go easy on him,it's not easy for any of our boys in the forces..
2007-02-26 02:31:14
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answered by trish b 7
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Give him some space. It can be things on his mind or he is trying to make up his mind on the relationship.
You play it his way. He will come around one way or the other. In the meantime go out with your friends as usual
2007-02-26 02:27:58
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answered by rowell2001 5
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leave he alone.me and my chap we fell out. i was phoning him text in. but he wouldn't reply. so i thought 2 myself sod him. if he wants me then he should do the running instead. so i didn't text him for 2 days. then i had a text saying u OK. he was worried. and then we made up. u got 2 show who is the boss. but don't worry he will run bk 2 u if u leave him alone .
2007-02-26 02:50:26
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answered by s.cullen01@btinternet.com 1
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