Me and my boyfriend that i love broke up for about a week. During that week my first boyfriend ever came back into my life wanting me to have his children and to get married. i dont like hurting people's feelings so i dont know how to tell him off. I got back with my boyfriend who i broke up with. Now i cant seem to get rid of my first. Help me please, how do i tell him off?
2007-02-26 02:15:03 · 18 answers · asked by vanillaswril 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him wats up its hard but u gotta do it cause n da end youll b messed up
2007-02-26 02:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally , i think you should concentrate on what you want rather than concentrating on how to put ur message across, i understand you may not want to hurt his feelings, but it will just come out naturally wen you go to tell him , if you keep thinking about how your gona tell him you will probably never end up telling him, so if it is your current boyfriend that you really want and if you want to get rid of your annoying ex, just tell him in simple words what you two used to have no longer exists and you have moved on so i would appreciate it if you could respect my decision and make a new move. (how does that sound)
2007-02-26 02:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how much history is with you and this first BF, but if he can't accept the fact that you're back with your current BF; he must have problems letting go...the fact he wants you to have his kids, get married, etc...shows that he is still hung up on you. I'd like to ask why you let him back in, but what's done is done. I'd do it as quickly as possible without debate, and I'd NOT EVER let him back into my life. Even if you do leave your current BF. Just tell him it was a mistake letting him back into your life; that the last thing you wanted was to hurt him all over again, but that you're going to have to do just that. Then do it.
2007-02-26 02:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by geehaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go back to where he came from and if he has any funny ideas about harassing, you will serve him with a RO and not hesitate to call the cops on him if he breaks it.
2007-02-26 02:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like competition, just tell the first boyfriend ,that you are happy with the fellar you are with now.
write him a note will get across his brain faster.
dont be mean now at least he still cares for ya, have that much
respect.
2007-02-26 02:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Your boyfriend to help you get this boy off your back or tell him that your with someone and he has to wait. don't tell him that you are not with someone or he'll ask you out.
2007-02-26 02:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by www.kelly_white 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Just tell him how you feel, that your in love with another man.
2007-02-26 02:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like im sorry, but im still with "bf's name"
and tell him that you and him had your chance a long time ago, and now its just not the same so you cant be with him
thats the best i could do lol
2007-02-26 02:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait the harder it will be to tell him. Be honest and just tell him how you feel.
2007-02-26 02:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Robert D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell him there are better girls out there. And that you may not be the one.
2007-02-26 02:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋