Me and my boyfriend that i love broke up for about a week. During that week my first boyfriend ever came back into my life wanting me to have his children and to get married. i dont like hurting people's feelings so i dont know how to tell him off. I got back with my boyfriend who i broke up with. Now i cant seem to get rid of my first. Help me please, how do i tell him off?
2007-02-26 02:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by vanillaswril 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to tell him off. Just tell him NO. Tell him you are not interested. Be direct. I have learned in life that hemming and hawing about things like this only causes more problems. Being direct does not mean be unkind, it only means to state it clearly and leave no room for doubt or "interpretation". Good luck.
2007-03-05 16:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally , i think you should concentrate on what you want rather than concentrating on how to put ur message across, i understand you may not want to hurt his feelings, but it will just come out naturally wen you go to tell him , if you keep thinking about how your gona tell him you will probably never end up telling him, so if it is your current boyfriend that you really want and if you want to get rid of your annoying ex, just tell him in simple words what you two used to have no longer exists and you have moved on so i would appreciate it if you could respect my decision and make a new move. (how does that sound)
2016-03-16 01:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dissapear from him.
Make sure he can't find you.
But the above r not so nice, though they r solutions.
Best solution though is you to tell him off, period.
You are a woman you will find the way
2007-02-26 02:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Panagiotis L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man loves dont
2016-02-01 01:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dexter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better tell him soon bbefore it gets to serious and then when u tell him he might never wanna talk 2 u again and he will feel lke u hurt him
2007-02-26 02:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you want him out of your life now
2007-02-26 02:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him frankly that ur answer is NO. but do it fast before it gets too late.
2007-03-05 21:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nivs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont look at him no more and tell him no take care
2007-02-26 02:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words.
Tell him, no thanks, hang up, and never EVER pick up the phone again.
He'll live.
2007-02-26 02:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋