My ex. bf who has been with his current gf for 9 months came looking for me.He drove around my house looking to see if i was around.He said he was just bored.He asked me to hang out later on that day and teased me about sex plus he complimented me on my body.I told him he as not getting any from me.We met up started flirting he started tickling me.Then it was kissing and the it looked like he wanted to fool around and have sex.He said it was okay cause he was sure his gf had cheated on him before.I told him i felt uncomfortable with the situation and to please take me back to my car. He did and said he would not press the issue cause he said he would never force me to do anything.Do you think he respects me?I really love him.Should i call him in a few weeks to tell him how i feel?
2007-02-26 02:14:06 · 3 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought i as over him but seeing him like old times made something go off emotionally.I think the reason he thought to go physical because i assumed thats what he was after when he said hang out.
2007-02-26 02:17:42 · update #1
The real issue is: Why did you both break up?
You need to determine what the causes of the break-up were and can they be addressed in a way which would prevent them from occurring again?
If there was infidelity, abuse, lying, cheating... chances are good that history will repeat itself.
If the break-up was caused by poor communication skills - that can be worked on and improved.
Make sure that you have a chance for a solid foundation with him before you seriously consider taking him back.
The second issue is: Will you be the "rebound" to his girlfriend? If he is only going back to you because you are a better alternative than his current girlfriend - your new relationship has a high probability of failure. You both need to be ready to commit 100% to each other if you want a relationship to work.
I wish you all the best!
PS. If you want to be tickled, I will tickle you and I won't be cheating on anybody. ;o}
2007-02-26 12:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - he could have just been using you to get back at her, especially since he said he's sure she has cheated on him. its not like he came over to your house looking to take you out and have a real conversation.. it sounds like he was all about hooking up the whole time, which is not a good thing. sorry...good luck to you. i think you should stop talking to him all together.
2007-02-26 02:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by charlotte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look im the same way, just forget about him and go for some other great looking guy
2007-02-26 02:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Becca E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋