If your gf/bf - wife/husband commited suicide what would you do?
2007-02-26 02:12:18 · 21 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my gf keeps talking about it and i cant tell her how much it would hurt me and that i would kill myself right after her.
2007-02-26 02:21:43 · update #1
What the hell kind of question is that? What are you the media now? "You just screwed up and lost the big game for your team..it was all your fault...how do you feel" DOH! How would anyone feel? I'm sorry I'm not trying to insult you, you've done so yourself by asking this question. Is there a certain way you should feel? Does everyone feel or deal with it the same? No. Those are questions if you really want to find out what is up with that. Asking how someone would feel IF that hppeaned...people would say sad, mad, distraught..every negative emotion you can think of. But IF it really happened is the only way one will know and only after seeing someone experience it or experiencing it for themselves will anyone know. I have no idea how I would react if something were to happen to any of my children....but I DO know this, It wouldn't be pretty. Answer me this question, and if it's happened to you, or someone you know, I'm sorry for your loss, but otherwise, Why would you ask such a question in the form that you asked it?
2007-02-26 02:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is your girlfriend considering suicide? I hope not. If she is get her some professional help. Soon! Don’t push the problem under the rug.
Or is she just curious? It might be some kind of sick question to reassure herself and to find out if you truely love her.
In any case, if my gf would kill herself I would feel really sad for a long time, but never kill myself. Life goes on.
2007-02-26 09:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be totally in shock...and, yes, I would probably cry and scream first thing...
Death of a loved one is a hard thing to go through, suicide or not...but ppl that commit suicide don't think about the pain that they cause those that they leave behind..
The hardest part about dealing with suicide is that one tends to go through a lot of additional feelings, like possibly blaming yourself for their actions, anger toward that person for doing it, feeling of guilt for not seeing that they were in trouble....
But the most important thing to remember is that it not usually anyones fault...and it is sometimes very hard to see the signs..
2007-02-26 02:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any type of loss regardless of what it is from is highly devastating. I don't think it is so much what you would do as much as how heavy your heart would feel. Of course, you can't blame yourself for things that are going on in someone else's mind that may lead to them taking drastic measures. One must keep focusing on the present and not live in the past. One must also have hope and get that person to a doctor before they do something. There certainly is treatment for depression and it is nothing to be ashamed of. That is just one human health problem as there are millions of others.
2007-02-26 02:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup i've got lost it many circumstances to not so intense relationships, yet my one actual love, i've got continuously made effective that I regain that loving feeling everytime I experience I 'm dropping it. Being married is extremely distinctive to being in basic terms in a courting, I certainly have continuously shown that for the period of marriage being in love is a decision- whether it is not what concerns maximum, what concerns maximum is staying in love.
2016-10-16 12:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by shakita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go through my own remorse and after probably a long time, maybe years, I would try to move on and start a new life.
I hope it never comes to that. It would make everyone around them so sad for so long.
2007-02-26 02:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i will be like a broken soul for quite some time but life goes on and i will believe that i have a second chance to love and live the way i want and another thing he/she died because of who he/she was not because of who i am u should take that point into consideration
2007-02-26 02:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by enasshalaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would mourn them, but then, move on. A loved one wouldn't want you to spend the rest of your life alone. If you're having trouble coping with the loss, then you should get some grief counseling; it will really help you!Best of luck!
2007-02-26 02:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 1 make sure u dont commite suicide dont beat ur self up about it it is a hard thing to get over though but dont beat urself up about it
2007-02-26 02:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be a complete shock and hope stuff like that dont happen these day.
I would feel an evil force took over that person to make them
do this.
u would have to move on and let it go and lean to God in prayer
for answers.
U will eventually move on and be happy.
2007-02-26 02:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋