My boyfriend turned cold and distant for a few days, stopped calling, texting etc. I behaved badly for a few days before... Anyway i asked him is it over between us? And he is not answering my question. I am asking him to be a man and to tell me if its over, so we can both move on and date others, he sais he "would prefer to see " me, but he will not, and that he is offended by my behaviour... I said sorry for my behaviour and said please tell me if you are leaving me, and be as harsh if you want i promise I will take it fine, but he is still not saying it. Instead he said he is tired, streessed, not in the mood to talk because he has some problems with career and thatn started referring to how i offended him... I apologised and he said its fine and even sent me a kiss on msn,,, is he dumping me or not... I don't understand.
He said he is offended that i always talk about money directly or inderictly and especially on that I compared him with previous guys and how much money they had
2007-02-26 02:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds a little like he is playing with you. Kind of keeping his options open which really is not fair. If I was you I would confront him directly you do need to know where you stand so you can start to deal with things. Keeping you in this limbo is not fair and a little cruel. OK so you fell out, and? Relationships are about give and take, working together, to make things work out. If you cant get through this I would be thinking about where the relationship is going. Communication and honesty are always best policy.
Good luck and hope things work out for you.
2007-02-26 02:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And they say women are complicated!! Girl if I were you I'd dump him. Why are you waiting for him to take the lead. Not sure what you mean by having "behaved badly" in the past but you obviously feel the need to seek out other things. As an outsider and from reading what you have written, I'd say it is over but he is too chicken to say it. So, you be the bigger person and say it for the both of your sakes.
Good luck!
2007-02-26 02:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe learn a lesson from this experience. One rule, never compare one guy to the next, especially to him. You are asking for trouble. I would say, that you better take off your dancing shoes, cause this song is over. As long as you learned something from your poor judgement
2007-02-26 02:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dump him because his problems could not just be with his cereer and whatever, he could be im not saying he is but he
could be getting ready or got intered in someone else and still
trying to keep you hanging on just in case. you see other people
and if he comes back to you in the way he was before you
keep seeing him and other people to. tell him that you want
to see other people or do him the way he did you he will
be asking if you are about to dump him!
2007-02-26 02:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by cheyanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's over men never want to tell the girl that. Either that or he is having problems with his life, ask him is all I can say.
2007-02-26 02:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE ONE OF TWO CHOICES ;
1- Hes feeling really touchy and insecure about how much or how little money he makes and in reflection how you see him because of how much money he makes and whatever you said to him made him feel a little more insecure and touchy, also if you compared him to other guys and how much they made he mey feel that you are more interested in his money than him. ( I know, MEN!)
OR
2- Hes a man and hes a coward and is just stringing you along.
(I tend to think its No1.)
2007-02-26 02:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by mculle18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dosen't sound good but what you need to do is give him some space. Pressuring him will only make it worse.
Some people (myself included) don't make decisions in haste.
They need to think things through.
2007-02-26 02:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by redman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off i would like to say that you are one mean *** fuckin *****! who the hell compares their boyfriend and his money to others they have been with. the reason why he isnt saying it is because hes a good guy and he doesnt want it over, but he damn well should, if you talk to him like that then you must not really like him that much, he should dumo ur prissy ***
2007-02-26 02:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well judging by what you did, maybe you should give him his space for a while. Maybe he will cool down soon and talk to you properly about how he feels.
2007-02-26 02:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by Amz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him tell him your not waiting anymore for his answer, and your ready to start dating someone new, you will find out his answer right away........
2007-02-26 02:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋