Ok so basically girls confuse me so im here to just ask for opinions.
If a girl likes a guy do girls tend to be pro-active or re-active? I know it differentiates from girl to girl but in general would a girl just continually sit there and wait for that guy to initiative most of the contact i.e. via email, text or phone call?
If you had a feeling that a guy liked you would you "test" to see how much he likes you by seeing how far he would go to actually chat to you etc?
Just a couple of questions that have me confused...
2007-02-26 02:07:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea i use to do that.
2007-02-26 02:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, and I know this isn't from the answer field you were polling, However.
I have found through life experience, that if you like someone, tell them, playing games only wastes time, and effort, and usually ends up in miscommunication. You have no control over what others will do, but you can control your actions, and when all is said and done, it is the things you never did, that you will regret......the what ifs. If you live your life saying what you feel, you won't have the regrets of "he never asked me out.....what if I had asked him out....
2007-02-26 10:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ! I think everyone is different,just like you said. I believe when two people click all this testing flys out the window. That is very immature to me, if she hasn't taken the initiative to show you how she feels then out the door for her and the same goes for you guys. I don't like to play games like that.
Hey I'm definitely re-active if you haven't gotten that by now.
Stop with the games, it's childish.!!!!No testing for me. Straightforward-nothingelse!!!!!!
2007-02-26 10:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as a girl, i could share some personal views. i think if a girl like some guy, even the girl is sitting there, she would show you her happiness through your communication and give you positive responds during your conversation.
to be honest, if i like that guy, i won't test. i may think about if do something would make both of us happy, not only consider my own feeling.
to follow your sence, but first, be honest on weather or not she likes you.
good luck!
2007-02-26 10:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by sally zhang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of . Some s are shy, like me but I try to have some courage. Yea, I'd test him to see how far he'd go to actually chat with me.
2007-02-26 10:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls tend to like initiators. And yes we do sometimes test to see how interested you are.
2007-02-26 10:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I am a reactive person. If I had a feeling that a guy like me, and I too liked him, I would test the waters, like you say, to see how far he would go.
2007-02-26 10:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was interested in a guy and I thought he was interested I would simply ask him. I wouldnt beat around the bush or play games. I would say hey whats up with us chillin sometime?
2007-02-26 10:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the guy approaching better
If i had a feeling a guy liked me i'd ignore it unless i thought he was super hot or something
2007-02-26 10:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl that enjoys the guy to approach me. I like him to be attentive and caring and show me he is interested.
2007-02-26 10:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by April F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It depends on the girl. However, I would think girls would want the guy to approach them.
2007-02-26 10:11:27 · answer #11 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋