How do I get him to be more aggressive in the bedroom?
I want him to rough me up a bit, but how do I tell him without sounding like he's doing something wrong???
2007-02-26 02:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by Melrose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to be spanked and have your hair pulled I can help you with that....what else would you like me to do to you?...email me your ideas! LOL
2007-02-26 02:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to set up a scene. Talk to him about what you like - tell him he is great and you have an idea of something fun you'd like try. He won't feel like you are 'correcting him' if you make him feel confident about himself. Tell him you want to try somethign rough and want him to take control. Setup a safeword that you will use if he is too rough but otherwise tell him not to worry about being too aggressive because you want him to act that way. If he is to rough you'll be able to use that word.
Nothing ruins a scene as much as the person asking - "is this okay? am i being too rough?"
tell him you'd like to try new things in the bedroom and him playing rough is one of them.
But you must make him feel confident and in control - if he feels that then you get him to do anything you want...
2007-02-26 02:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by efil_4_msdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be the one. Jump on top of him, and show him how it is done. Then just say, oh ya baby I like it rough. Who knows, maybe the next time he will knock the crap out of you. You just might get what you asked for
2007-02-26 02:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone or something is timid tha best thing to do is this : build up his self esteem in tha bedroom then he'll be more confident
2007-02-26 02:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is funny, well in all your a bit freakier then he, theres no way around it, just tell him otherwise you'll eventually find someone who satisfies you.
2007-02-26 02:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him little suggestions. Say you sometimes like your hair pulled, etc. He'll get the hint.
2007-02-26 02:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like "be really rough!"
2007-02-26 02:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like it rough eh?
2007-02-26 02:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bite him... not to hard though... or you can tell him that you dont mind him being a lil rough.. good luck!
2007-02-26 02:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Stefanie-Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be aggressive with you, I'd tie you down and give it to you really good!!!
2007-02-26 02:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋