Good looks...... or Personality..... intelligence or a fit body......
What is it about a guy that really turns you on.....?
2007-02-26 02:04:31 · 39 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty, Trust.......
2007-02-26 02:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok! First im a guy. And im calling out all you girls that are sitting there giving advise that you really DO NOT follow. Me Ive always had trouble even getting a girl friend. And it was always because I liked to show respect to a women. And that my friend is what all will say. " I want a man who knows how to treat me right. Take me to the movies and dinner, and a man who can respect me. Looks dont Matter !!" Come on that is BS!. I dont mean to be rude man but guys like us..... well we just finish last!! Because you are posting this i am guessing that you are having a bit of trouble with a girl that you like. Ladies if you have made it this far on my response.. Please help the guy out. Dont say what you would say to reflect an ounce of graditude. Be honest. Ill tell you how i know that probably 98% of them are just seeming so honest. Well a lot of them have denied that looks are not important. Ehh WRONG with any person there has to be a physical attraction. Any girl that tells you different is either a genuine girl ,or a liar how to tell the difference..well i cant helpp you there. But the best way to get your girl is to just be yourself.
And if she doesnt take. Well the only way to think about the situation is "Her loss" it sound easier then it really is though. So good luck . Just keep confident.
2007-02-26 04:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by lasers_90 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally I'd go for somebody who is interesting to talk to. I find if you have a lot in common with another person, be it man or woman that relationship will last a long long time. If you are looking for a loving relationship with the opposite sex then chemistry must come into play. If there is no sexual attraction, then it won't go anywhere. You both have to feel the chemistry to develop it further. A good start of point is friendship. Appearance isn't everything because the sexiest and fittest looking bloke could be empty upstairs and the dullest of companions. What would you rather be stuck with??
2007-02-26 02:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to tell you the truth.... do not believe all that truthful, etc and stuff. I'll be honest.
Well I suppose looks matter a great deal. That is if she's looking at you for the first time and all. But if the girl really knows you very well, then looks do not matter.
But personality does. Smartness in your way of thinking and speaking will attract more girls. And then intelligence too. You have to be normal or above normal. But not a nerd or stupid.
Well about body, I guess you should be healthy but not too slim.
Well I dunno if that helps or anything.
Cheers!!!
2007-02-26 22:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm.. I like all three. Good looks, personality, intelligence and a fit body. Lets make that all four.
2007-02-26 02:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks is the first impressions, i won't lie to say it doesn't matter at all cause it does to a certain level to make me talk to you, personality is something that will decide if i stay or leave. if u are really good looking but you're dumb, i will still leave, so personality keeps me around as well as intelligence cause i don't want to be having conversation with a dumb ***, but at the end of the day if both of us could communicate it usually doesn't matter. fit body at the end of the day is a plus point.
2007-02-26 02:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont care what anybody says but sexual attraction and what he looks like is IMPORTANT, that is what all girls look at initially. If you are not sexually attracted to someone- whats the point
Nobody can just go for a guy for his personality and intelligence- Hopefully the guy will have these.
2007-02-27 02:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the good looks and a fit body, but personality is a must! boys have to have a good personality before i even think of starting to like them...
2007-02-26 02:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Spamoid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its first impressions with me, he has to dress nice, no white socks with black shoes and definately no jeans that are too short, looks are important but what I would find attractive someone else mightn't, I met my fiance through work and didn't fancy him at all I thought he was a bit of a geek but as the weeks went past I thought he was the most perfect bloke in the world, so lovely to talk to, was great craic, actually was very good looking but I didn't see it b4 as he wasn't my normal type, he doesn't have a muscley body or anything, I cant stand that, to me he just has a normal bloke body and I love every bit of him except his feet I cant have feet about me
2007-02-26 02:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest the first thing I am going to notice about a guy is his looks. If he is good looking to me then I would talk to him but and maybe do some flirting. If he isn't attractive to me I would still talk to him if he approached me but would not flirt. As time goes by and you develop a relationship with someone I think their personality becomes the attractive part. I know people are probally going to think I am shallow but they need to be honest in general you wouldn't hook up with someone if you didn't notice their looks first.
2007-02-26 02:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by April F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks are a personal choice wot i find good looking my mates might not, body? don't have to be no great body builder but no reall skinny either, def gotta have a personality tho someone who makes me laugh and can have a decent intelligent conversation with, intelligence don't have to be too great but no numb nuts either. what turns me on is the way a guy carries himself, confident, funny, caring and happy, an a sexy bum and legs.
2007-02-26 02:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by DeViL..^--^~~ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋