My ex. bf who has been with his current gf for 9 months came looking for me.He drove around my house looking to see if i was around.He said he was just bored.He asked me to hang out later on that day and teased me about sex plus he complimented me on my body.I told him he as not getting any from me.We met up started flirting he started tickling me.Then it was kissing and the it looked like he wanted to fool around and have sex.He said it was okay cause he was sure his gf had cheated on him before.I told him i felt uncomfortable with the situation and to please take me back to my car. He did and said he would not press the issue cause he said he would never force me to do anything.Do you think he respects me?I really love him.Should i call him in a few weeks to tell him how i feel?
2007-02-26 02:02:13 · 7 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought i as over him but seeing him like old times made something go off emotionally.I think the reason he thought to go physical because i assumed thats what he was after when he said hang out.
2007-02-26 02:04:50 · update #1
He does not respect you at all. He said he thought her girlfriend cheated on her so that's why he wanted to do same. Please don't give your heart back to him because if you do, he will break it. He is already having another girl, forget about him and I'm sure you are going to have another boyfriend. He is not the only boy on earth. Just try and control your feelings. Don't tell him the way you are feeling because if you do, he will instead try to make a fool of you and use you. Just try and control your feelings. Any time you want to think about him, just put a music that you like most and start singing so as to forget about him. When you see him and he wants to let say take you some were or kiss you or what so ever, don't accept. Just try as much as possible to keep away from him. Delete his number from your phone. But if you meet him on the way, you can greet him but don't allow him to go far in any conversation. Always try to keep away from. Make sure you don't have anything in common with him.
2007-02-26 02:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Reeaaalllly careful about somethign like that, It's rarely the best idea to get into a relationship with someone who justifies cheating on someone by saying it's "okay cause he was sure his gf had cheated on him before" you may have feelings for him but be realistic with yourself. When you say you love him do you really feel that way or did you just miss being with someone and geting some kind of affection. There are a lot of questions you should probably ask yourself about how you really feel and make sure that your not just trying to fill a space. I'm not really sure what reasons to give you becuse this is pretty clearly (from my perspective) a rather easy decision from a third person perspective. I suppose really all I can put out there for you to consider is that you should really take a look at your feelings and also at the way in which they were revived. Ask yourself quesitons you might not want to think about and consider your honest answers. Be Careful! Good luck ( ^_^)
2007-02-26 10:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by DaveK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel, but if he was about to fool around on his current g/f because he THINKS she cheated to he might fool around on you because he will use the same excuse he THINKS you cheated on him. You should be really careful about this he may only want you for the sex or he may really care about you. you should think long and hard about this.
2007-02-26 10:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he respects you. if he came around only once to see you. He may have had problems with his current girlfriend and trying to get with you. You may just be his fall back girl. I don't think you should call him unless he is done with current girlfriend
2007-02-26 10:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by tkpimp1000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't; once a cheater, always a cheater! If he's willing to cheat on her, he'll do the same to you. Remember, there's a reason why he's your EX!
2007-02-26 10:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta play it safe, if you do go out with him, make sure he breaks up with his current gf, for real too, doesnt cheat on you, doesnt use you for sex, and doesnt use you to make his ex gf's jealous
2007-02-26 10:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONCE AN EX, ALWAYS AN EX
2007-02-26 10:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋