will we get back together soon?

Question

ok..my boyfriend and I were together for almost two years.. I broke up with him about a month ago but then realized a few days later that I did want to be with him and work out our issues but then he said that we do need time apart because of my trust issues which were causing a lot of arguments in our relationship for ex. I would argue with him if he went to the gym too much or if he wanted to hang with his boys (which i see my errors now)we have seen each other 3 times in this "break" and we ended up having sex and cuddling and we never go more than 2 days without speaking or texting and he says that he loves me to death and he doesn't want to lose me but he's just been feeling down and frustrated with where his life is right now "he's 24 and has nothing to show for it still lives w/ his mom, dead end job, no car" he feels like he wants to be alone right now and he told me all he wants is some time. What should i do? No communication at all? How much time do i wait? will we get back?

Answer 1

i think that if you both love each other like you say you should talk about it now. Its all lies when they say they need space if anything when they are feeling down the most they should allow the person they care about help them get there life back together. I wish that my ex would let me help shes the same way has nothing in life anymore. She is going no where but down and I just wish that she would let me help her because i could help her get back to the life she once lived. In a relationship you never need space like that it always ends up being a bad idea. So if you really want to be back with him talk to him before its to late tell him to let you be his shoulder to lean on and help him get his feet back on the floor.

Answer 2

yeah if it was meat to be he'll come back and I'm not trying to make you mad when I say this I'm just beening honest with you.
maybe that's how he feel when a person is not happy about they self they can't be happy with you. maybe him hanging with his boys going to the gym keep things off his mind and when he get around you all you do is ***** at him that's the last thing he wanna hear for you of all people instead of bitching at him all the time and be there for him talk to him help him solve his problem you see it's not about you anymore it's about ya'll ya'll in this together if he's a good man don't lose him to the dumb **** that could be controlled if ya'll just talk instead of bitching at each everytime ya'll se each other work your problem out and lisren to each other out and cut some of the bull and stop having sex so much that not going to solve the problem because when ya'll finish the problem only come back and maybe wroster than it was the first time and yes I think you sould call him only if ya'll talk and try to help each oter with ya'll problem not to *****.

Answer 3

if he says he needs time, give him time. stop giving urself up to him. ur body is a precious thing, it's ur temple, ur kingdom, the thing you cherish. dont let anyone just hit it up and then say they need time, and then hit it up and say they need time again. VALUE URSELF! let him get himself together and who knows, maybe you need to get urself together too. i think u both need time to sort out ur lives, and if ur really serious about each other, then you wont need the sex to keep you together. I would advise you to think about ur life right now, and ask God how it needs to change. And wait for a response. If it's the "real deal", then God will show you. If not, then you need to wait for Him to tell you what to do next.

Answer 4

u might get back together or u might not. i say wait for at least a month or 2 to pass before u guys get back together. u can talk to him but make sure it doesn't go any further then that.