When he has been with a current gf for 9 months??By looking i mean driving around her house.Does this means he is looking for a booty call or he may still have feelings for her or a mix of both? He also tried to prososition her even hough they had no contact for almost 7 months.
2007-02-26 01:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am the ex. gf and cant figure out why he came looking for me randomly?
2007-02-26 01:36:32 · update #1
I turned him down but have feelings for him still
2007-02-26 01:41:34 · update #2
Tell him to f off. He's still got feelings, or there's not been any closure.
2007-02-26 01:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by guyizzgay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Because he still thinks very highly of you....and he misses some of the pleasurable moments or certain things he had with you. Mostly I believe no reasonable closure has occured here within this former relationship. How did it all end up in disaster with the two of you significantly? Unresolved relationship issues still lye open for his imagination to run around with. YIKES! Who's fault is this reasonably? There are still some leftover unresolved feelings hanging around within him mentally. Let's hope they're not revengful or dangerous feelings most certainly. A booty call is a booty call. Maybe the sex was spectacular for you two...I don't know! It's always a possibility for some sweetie,...but I don't believe for a minute that a booty call with an ex partner will ever resolve the real issues for why he's doing this kind of stalking activity otherwise. Stalking is not comfortable for anyone. In fact it's against the law. He needs to STOP doing this type of immature thing immediately. I say he does need to hear why he's been let go...and then absolutely both of you two need to agree on not contacting one another in any form until further notice. Let time heal everyone's wounds here hun. You're both ex's for similar reasons sweetie. Know for yourself why this has occured. Let him know too! It's time for everyone to grow up and move on down the line to heal yourselves. Some day it might be possible to be friends,....but not for right now hun. Let the dust settle significantly with both of you seriously. Try to be gentle and respectful of his feelings too. Hopefully he'll honor yours by leaving you alone. We all have curiousity in how our ex's are doing...but be honarable about stuff you used to have with him....and maybe he'll be honorable too! Move forward...not backwards.
2007-02-26 10:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple....he is really missing his life with you. He most likely still has a great deal of feelings toward you. He probably just had a fight with his current g/f and wants you to make him feel better.
2007-02-26 09:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is quite simple..he is dissatisfied with sex with his current girl. He knows you still harbor feelings for him so he is going to take advantage of that and have sex with you. You guys probably had a spark. But he doesn't want you back..so keep that in mind
2007-02-26 09:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Devon T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because so men and boys are dumb they don't relize what they had intill it's gone. and maybe he realize it and don't know how to tell you so he's pulling it together on how to tell you he made a mistake because if he wated a booty I preety sure that more easy to ask then asking for you back that's if he broke it off even if you did he might still have feeling for you and don't know how to tell you because he know that you don't want him.
2007-02-26 09:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by quendra m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he still has old feelings, based on your info you should at least hear him out to see whats on his mind, to get a better understanding then infer.
2007-02-26 09:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say either one (booty call OR may still have feelings).
2007-02-26 09:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might still have feelings for u. or he may want closer on y u guys broke up. guys r just really confusing on y they do things.
2007-02-26 09:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by army brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably both; if you're smart, you'll stay away from him. You really don't want to be just a convenient get-away for him.
2007-02-26 09:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for something: here in the UK we call it wanting to "have your cake and eat it".
2007-02-26 09:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by Siamese Triplets 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋