Out of all my friends Im the total boy crazy one. And I always think guys are cute or if I have a boyfriend Im talking about him. And my friends just act like Im total weirdo and give me these weird looks. And at the dance I was dancing with this guy and just because he had his hands on my hips all my friends were like "Are you having fun freak dancing with Ben, could you get any closer?" and we werent even that close. It just bothers me that they're always acting like Im a total weirdo and making it seem like just because they arent totally interested in guys I cant be. Am I sl*t?
2007-02-26 01:33:20 · 7 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't a slut you are a norman teen with raging hormones. But cool it on the dancing his hands shouldn't be all on your hips in public like that.
2007-02-26 01:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by JELLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of myself. Now that I have a boyfriend, I talk about him constantly. I can't help it; I love him! But I understand your point. You are not a sl*t, you just love to talk, especially about guys. There's nothing wrong with that. As for the dancing thing, my friends do that all the time. It seems like everytime you dance with a guy, it means you love him and want more. I hate when that happens. But you are perfectly normal in what you are doing. What girl doesn't love cute guys?
2007-02-26 09:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Naomi316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't even refer to yourself as a sl*t. Are you young and maybe your hormones are bouncing off the wall at this time? Probably. It happens to all of us in our young ages. Are your friends jealous, maybe some are.... Maybe they are also worried that you may find yourself getting into a situation that could possibly change your life at this time ,that you are not ready for. Your friends may care about you and what you could possibly do to your reputation by making wrong choices in your actions. You can be interested in boys, that is normal, but watch your actions because that can get you into trouble.There is someone special just for you in this big world. When will you meet him? Hmmmm, we don't know the answer to that one. What do you want others to think of you? Ask yourself that question first. Look at what you are doing and ask yourself, " Am I acting in a way that would make them think of me in this way. OR am I jeapordizing myself and making people think of me in a negative way, by my actions. I don't know how old you are, Sounds to me that you are a young teen.... Honey, you have a long life ahead of you, don't throw it away. Get a good education, have fun, but watch your actions so you don't find yourself in a bad situation, and so people don't mark you, can't mark you as someone who you really aren't. It has been a long time since I was a teenager but I know it wasn't the easiest time of my life, believe me. I could tell you some things that would make your hair stand up on end. Sometimes things can happen that you don't want to happen, even when you aren't acting out or asking for it. Don't put yourself in a bad situation by the wrong actions. Enjoy yourself honey but don't jeapordize this time of your life. Take your time, don't grow up too fast... God Bless you sweetie.
2007-02-26 10:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Godlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you haven't put out, I wouldn't call you a sl*t. Maybe a HUGE tease. But you're a teenage girl; being boy-crazy comes with the territory.
2007-02-26 09:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by kevness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, your just having a good time
2007-02-26 09:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, ignore them ther just beiing petty and jealous
2007-02-26 10:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just a flirt
2007-02-26 09:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋