Well, I like my one guy friend, and it's obvious he likes me too. He always stares at me and tries to get my attention, but he doesn't talk to me. (He does, but not alot). He also says how he likes this girl, but he won't tell me who it is. Could it possibly be me? My family always says I could get any guy, but I haven't yet had one true boyfriend. Could you please tell me what's going on? Thanks!!!
2007-02-26 00:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Kelsey D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, a lot of guys are intimidated by beautiful women. Make the first move, what is the worst that could happen?
2007-02-26 00:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if u want a bf u should take the initiative. It's not the guys responsibility to come up to u (regardless of what some sexist people would try to tell u) just like it's not your job to cook, clean or be housewife. The guys r probably waiting for u to make the first move just like u r waiting for them. Nothings going to happen if u and a guy that u like are both waiting for each other.
2007-02-26 09:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you. As for guys being intimidated by girls, the good duys usually are. The guys who aren't are usually the players who are only looking for a trophy. Not always but usually. The best guys out there are the quiet ones. They appreciate ladies more because they are too shy to act on their feelings. So when the opportunity arises, they treat their women like gold. Unfortunately for them, they are usually the guys that are alone on Saturday nights.
2007-02-26 08:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by scarbados 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, yes. Girls both benefit and lose out more on looks than guys do, so it sort of creates two opposite sides of the spectrum.
Any guy except the jerk or superconfident guy would feel intimidated by a girl who he might consider 'out of his league'. That added too by the fact that everyone expects the guy to do something.
The higher the risk (you being pretty), the more the intimidation.
2007-02-26 09:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty but that may not mean that he loves you. The truth could be that you love this guy and you think he loves you too. Give him some space if he is talking about you in reference to the girl he likes he will run to you. Act as if you are of late ignoring him then he will come up with his story
2007-02-26 09:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being a little over confident. MAybe this guy legitamtely likes another girl. Is the dude pretty. If so he's probably not intimidated by you.
2007-02-26 09:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by seminole0885 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him not us!
tell him that another guy asking you for a date and you what to know if he really likes you or not.
tell him that you will be happy if he is not just a friend, and that you don t like the other person so mutch as him....
anyway!
confusion...
good luck!
2007-02-26 09:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hate getting rejected. It is not fair that only mena get rejected and women don't
2007-02-26 09:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not sure if you will want him the way he wants you. Since you are pretty, he doesn't know if you are on his level.
2007-02-26 08:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are. Sit him down and talk to him. Let him know that you won't bite.
2007-02-26 08:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋