What do you think?My bf went and tried to hook up with his ex.gf.I dont get it why would he go looking as in driving around her block for her at 7 a.m.He works nights and drives through that area sometimes on his way home but would'nt he be tiered?.Six months ago i forced him to severe all contact and he did till 2 days ago?I dont get it ?Do you think since she turned him down that he wont try and contact him again or vice versa?
2007-02-26 00:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am afraid the ex.gf still loves him!and might try and be his friend again.
2007-02-26 00:53:17 · update #1
I dont want her to take him from me
2007-02-26 00:55:16 · update #2
He tried to hook up with her i dont get why?
2007-02-26 00:59:33 · update #3
Drop that loser
Get a real man
Thats all I have to say
RESPECT YOURSELF!
2007-02-26 00:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1- Guys are stupid
Rule #2- Guys are very stupid
Rule #3- Guys think sometimes with their penis [the little head]
Some guys just want their cake and eat it to.
Guys want as much sex as they can get, if he can get you all the time and get some from her other times, he thinks he is happy.
Happiness is not just between the legs, it is from the heart and the brain. For that he needs someone special. If she was special he would not be sneaking around her neighbor hood early in the morning, he is hoping for a booty call. Maybe she is not stupid enough to give it to him.
If you love him, sit him down, talk to him, tell him you know, and see what he says. Just because he is stupid and had a lapse in judgement does not mean you can forgive him one time.
But make it clear, this is the only chance he gets and if he does it again, your out of here and in the market for a new boyfriend.
2007-02-27 15:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Powerlifter-Norm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make somebody do something that they don't want to do. It sounds like such an easy concept, but sometimes in relationships its not. Being that you forced him to leave his ex alone, I'm not surprised that you caught him riding through her block. If he was really serious about this relationship, then he would have done it on his own. Every relationship as well as break up period is different, it could take a while for him and her to get each other out of their systems. I think you should leave him alone. He shouldn't want to be bothered with her and he should want to respect you, and it doesn't seem like hes' doing either.
2007-02-26 08:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your frustration. But, understand that noone really "steals" someone from you. He is the one making the choices in this situation. You have choices too. Do you choose to be with him and accept his behavior? Is this something you can live with? We are all different and I am not judging you. I hope you can work it out between the two of you. Just think about your choices in life and what makes you happy.
Good luck! :)
2007-02-26 09:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He *is* likely tired after his overnight shift, and maybe that's why he's making the poor judgement of driving around to see her.
Or maybe it was your intervention 6 months ago that's got him finally wandering around her place again. Maybe he never let go of the feelings back then, but stopped the behavior because you wanted him to. Now, he's trying to work through old feelings again.
Just talk it out with him, and find out why he went around. If she's turned him down, you likely have nothing to actually worry about in that regard... but find out where his head is at.
2007-02-26 08:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG i am in the same situation with the roles reversed!So i have no idea!
2007-02-26 09:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mandie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM TO GET LOST
MOVE ON AND FIND A GOOD MAN
2007-02-26 09:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord! he ISNT your bf, sounds like he is HERS! get rid of him, he's a cheater! and he doesnt love you!
2007-02-26 08:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be possible he won't go looking for her again
2007-02-26 08:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you better give him some or he will look elsewhere
2007-02-26 08:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋