I knew him through internet about 6 months ago and after awhile he told me he loves me and it was something difficult to just say I love you too that fast and he kept telling me he loves me and in the end i found myself falling into him but the problem is that I didn't meet him yet and I know he loves me but he doesn't care enough to call and always busy but yet I'm sure he loves me I just know it , please someone help me and don't tell me I'm young and that stuff , I Know I'm In LoVe
2007-02-26 00:45:34 · 22 answers · asked by gOgO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is what u dont want - u r mistaken and misled. Stop this craze - Step out of illusion and think practically
2007-02-26 00:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by spice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, How many times did you watch the news, and see that some teenaged girl decided to meet the one she "loves", and it turned out to be an adult. Then, he takes her away with him, and shes being held captive and shes missing. I am not saying this will happen to you, but your situation sure has the makings for it to happen to you. Then what? He probably does not call you because you will be able to tell he's an old man!! You need to alert your parents...if you can't tell them, tell some other adult that you can trust. You show your age by thinking that you can fall in love throuht the internet, by looking at pictures (which may or may not be the person he says he is), and by listening and believing everything they say. You need to chill, and forget this guy. Block him, and start fresh. When you are older, re look at this question, and answers, and you will say to yourself "God I was stupid"..and I don't mean to be mean, just trying to save you from something that may be way too much for you to handle. Take care sweetie and God Bless you.....
2007-02-26 01:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Angel333... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he show you some pictures of him?
Do you even know what he looks like?
Lemme tell you something about the internet.. there are a lot of people in it claiming to be somebody they're not.. he could be saying he's twenty-two when he could be 40, in jail, for a rape case... for all we know he could be a basket-case or worse a pedophile..
people in-love will always have time for the people they love..him not calling you just proves that he doesn't want you to even hear his voice.. and that says something bad about him..
You're 15.. your old enough and smart enough to know what's right for you.. don't settle for a guy you just knew from the internet, who wouldn't even call you.. you deserve someone a whole lot better..
2007-02-26 00:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no doubt you are in love, of course you're old enough.
That being said- he doesn't "care enough to call" and is "always busy"? Sounds like he could be married.
If you really do love him, realize that any physical relationship with you would put him in jail. I think you should back off on this one, even though it will be hard. You deserve someone who will really be there for you, and can go with you places- to dances, etc.
Good luck and hang in there.
2007-02-26 00:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all its illegal for you to be with this man. Second, why would a 22 yr old man want to be with a 15yr old? I know you probably like this guy but try to figure out what his intentions are. To me it sounds a bit shady..how do you even know this man is really 22? He might be alot older and just sending you pictures from when he was 22 or pictures of someone else who isn't even him. My advice is stay away. If you MUST meet him do it in a public place, bring something to protect yourself (aka pepper spray or mace), let someone know where you're going and have your cell phone turned on. Just be CAREFUL.
2007-02-26 00:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not in love at all...your 15 for crying out loud..you dont even know what you want to be when you grow up...how can you be in love with someone you havent met yet? and whats wrong with him that he has to pursue a 15 year old. women of his own age dont want anything to do with him? why do you need to continue this insane so called relationship when the next cute boy who smiles at you comes along. forget the 22 year old guy. hang out with your own age group.
2007-02-26 00:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is not love he is a creep playing with a child's emotions. He can and will end up in jail if this continues. You are not in love you like the attention and he knows you are falling for his oh I love you speech. Please get away from him or there is real heartache and trouble up ahead.
2007-02-26 00:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
please don't fall to fast for a person you meet on the net cause you just don't know so please be wise and think before it's to late you are young and remember he is 22 and your 15 if he says he loves you like he says he does he will wait for you to turn 18 cause he needs to think about what he is doing cause he can get in alot of trouble. so please be careful.
2007-02-26 01:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by raven s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gogo,
It is inappropriate for him to go out with you, and it is illegal to do anything more. He is likely wanting to get an easy score (sorry, but your inexperience is what he is looking for).
If I'm wrong about his intentions, your parents will not understand. He is 7 years older than you. If you like this guy, you need to break it off. It is best for you and for him.
2007-02-26 01:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a pedophile, stay away from him. You are still a child and any adult who is telling a child that he loves her is considered a pedophile. He can be arrested for this. Do not talk to him anymore and find someone that you know your own age.
2007-02-26 00:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋