i made a mistake and slept w/ my best friend and now hes blaming it all on me. y is he doing this?
2007-02-26 00:38:40 · 11 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dear "colleague"
Friendship is one mind in two bodies. as you felt you have done a mistake even he is feels the same. He would have felt guilty about what ever has happen because you are girl and he is boy and he cant tell his feelings as a friend now because It takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it. he may have felt that he had lost trust of yours on him. True friendship isn't seen with the eyes, it's felt with the heart. pls talk to him, and say there is nothing wrong happen between you both and u trust him as best friend today,yesterday, to-marrow and forever. I congratulate you that you got such a good friend who felt he has don't a mistake and advise you not loose his friendship. "If you have two friends in your lifetime, you're lucky. If you have one good friend, you're more than lucky". ALL THE BEST and wish you both of them continue to be best friends and shares the good times and helps out by listening during the bad times. pls explain him that he hasn't done any mistake.byeeeeeeeeeeeee.
sincerely
alpa.
2007-02-26 01:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by alpa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is blaming you because you were the one in bed with someone other than him.
but, yes, the question remains, why did you feel the need or desire to sleep with your best friend and not your boyfriend?
once your b/f has cooled off, apologize and tell him that you realize that he and you should have talked over whatever it was that was botherring you, rather than seeking comfort in the wrong place.
these things happen and i beleive a loving couple should be able to forgive one another if it has happend for the first and last time.
good luck!
2007-02-26 08:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by azinum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being an idiot it takes two to tango its not like u had a gun to his head anyway you also shouldnt have it goes to show its not worth it sleeping with someone whos not ur husband they never appreciate
2007-02-26 08:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old rule is that it takes two to tango. But I feel like he is trying to make you look like the bad person, when he is really insecure about himself. He is trying to make you the bad person and make himself look better. He sounds like he is not really your best friend.
2007-02-26 08:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not blame everthing on you. He made a commitment with you not your bestfriend. It is all of your fault.
2007-02-26 08:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having trouble dealing with his emotions and needs to dump them somewhere n that is unfortunately on you. I hope you re-evaluate your friendship but u do need to have a talk with him. Good luck.
2007-02-26 08:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really need more info to answer this but best guess is he can't accept responsibility for his actions happens in alot of relationships
2007-02-26 08:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by shawn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tangle and two to make love
2007-02-26 08:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Richard D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my understanding i think is not fear what you have dun to him
is normal that he feels like that
put your self in his place
2007-02-26 08:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses a mistery in your relation... give it a time.
2007-02-26 09:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Inna D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋