ok so my boyfriend broke up with me. The day before our 6 months. His reasons were that he doesnt love me as much as i love him, he doesnt see me as a gf but rather a "close" friend who he cant tell anything to. He said being bf/gf is a label and nothing will be different. ( I think he is wrong) but he said we had a great relationship before, so we will still have one. He says we can still hang out at each others houses and stuff. I dont get it. How am i supposed to get over him when he still wants to hang out. and my dad said maybe he will realize how much he misses me when we hang out and will see if we can get back together and he said maybe idk what will happen in the future. Does anybody have and advice about anything? Please help. Thanks everyone!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 00:38:23 · 5 answers · asked by SMasewicz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, how old are you? Secondly, if you still have feelings for him, you shouldn't hang out with him. If you do that, chances are this is what will happen: you hang out just as before, you get false hopes, he starts dating someone else, tries to string you along, now you're even more broken up about him than before. If you're going to just be friends now, you should take some time to get over him before you truly can become "just friends". Thirdly, there are sooo many fish in the sea, don't dwell on just one. If it was meant to be, it will be, relax and enjoy your life for now. If it wasn't meant to be with him, it will be with one of those other fish. Everybody talks about him realizing he misses you. Don't count on it, because if you do all these things, you are doing them in the hopes that it turns out that way. But, what if it doesn't? At that point, again, you're left feeling worse. Seriously, move on, you are young yet, like I said before if it was meant to be, it will happen. Don't spend your youth trying to get some guy to miss you and run back to you. I was with a guy from the time I was 15 until 23. However, it was very on and off, I wouldn't take back the lessons I learned, the memories I gained, the people I met, the friendships along the way, but I would take back the time I lost to grow into myself and realize what my likes and dislikes are. Who I truly was without him. I didn't really get to start finding out who I was until I was 23. Don't let this happen to you.
2007-02-26 00:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by 81 Honda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to date someone else. Drop him and stop worrying...the first time he sees you out with another guy it will hit him what he lost. Then he might want to get back together. But don't. It sounds like you are young, so don't get too wrapped up in this one guy, there are many more out there and there is someone that will want to be with only you for ever and you with him. Good luck :)
2007-02-26 08:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to each others hoouse just talk on the phone a little bit make him realize that he does miss you dont be there for everything he needs. all he really wants out of you is to be friends with benefits.
2007-02-26 08:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by lilpimptk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just for get him move on and tell him that u don't want him to be hanging around your house but u can still be friends.
2007-02-26 08:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by tommy two tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fink he is leading you on now, he will love the fact that he clicks his fingers and you come running!!! xx
2007-02-26 08:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by adrian h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋