My ex and i have not contacted since we broke up two months. We had a bad break up and said many nasty things. But he must have joined some friendship network and sent me a request to be his friend? Should i click on yes or no??
I contemplating of not replying at all.
2007-02-26 00:36:02 · 25 answers · asked by chardonnayormerlot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm thinking this is his way of trying to worm into your affections again. If he did want to get back with you why didn't he contact you personally ? I'm sure he still has your number and knows where you live. The fact that your contemplating not replying says a lot. Do what you want to do and forget about the guy. There's plenty of other guys out there. Good luck !
2007-02-26 00:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by sonj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - its not good to hold a grudge against someone. you don't have to speak to him every day, or even every month, but by saying yes, you're just saying no hard feelings, which can only be a good thing. If he does keep contacting you after this, you can just block him, but there's no harm in accepting an olive branch
you must have had good times together before you split up so why not try and stay on good terms
2007-02-26 08:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. Do you want to be friends with him? If not, either click no or don't reply. If you want to try and get back a friendship with him, click yes.
2007-02-26 08:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by scarbados 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you scared of being hurt? If not, then what have you got to lose? We all say things in the heat of the moment that we regret and making up bond relationships closer. Give him a chance and see what becomes of it, after all, you obviously enjoyed each other's company before the split.
2007-02-26 08:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why it would be bad if you accepted. Talk to him though.
Worse comes to worse, if things are still bad, you can just get out of the friends network and not speak to him again.
2007-02-26 08:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you broke up on bad terms and obviously he/she got no intentions of going back with you Cu's of this dating thing then do reply but reply as a no! you need to make him/her understand you cant simply be friends after such a break up.
2007-02-26 08:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him or not? What make you two broke? If what make broke the bad thing like he have another girlfriend the answer.. NO!
2007-02-26 08:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rizalcb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes nothing is wrong with replying... give him a second chance after all there are good times that the two of you spent together....
2007-02-26 08:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by hypnosis_31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you want to forget about him. Ignore the request. If you answer no he'll probably start pestering you.
2007-02-26 08:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mad Professor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dont give him a chanve to either torment you or try to get you back. Keep your head up and let him know youve moved on
2007-02-26 08:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by begging4love123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋