I have just got a new boyfriend (been together just over a month) and i am being totally insecure (i dont show this to him).
Anyway i have had really really REALLY bad luck with men in my life and this is the first guy to show me love and respect.
My problem is im totally insecure (i dont have a very high self esteem!) i get all upset if he doesnt say "i love you" at the end of a text if i say it to him (which is know is really stupid cuz i know he loves me and he always says it when were face to face) and i get all upset if i dont see him every day (i think he is avoiding me even though the fact of the matter is that i see him almost every day and he is probaly just tired and wants to spend a night with his family every now and then).
I know all this is ridiculous but i still cant stop feeling that way. I know he loves me and enjoys being with me.
How can i stop feeling so insecure about myself and just enjoy what we have together?
Thanks
Scarlet x
2007-02-26 00:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm... first off learn to accept that he loves you and maybe more than you can ever imagine...
Guys don't show how much they love their girls coz their afraid that look weak in front of the person they love (which is you) so do understand us men...
Insecurities are pretty normal especially in women but what i said in the latter is true... if you feel insecure its okay just don't over do it coz you might lose the one who loves you...
Oh and yeah have you ever told him you love him?
2007-02-26 00:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about this relationship, you have to grow up. Even though your boyfriend is such a nice guy, but keep depending your self-worth on him and you will regret it. Nobody can handle such workload. Learn to trust him more and most importantly, learn to love yourself more. How would you possibly value the relationship you have, if you can't even value yourself?
Think about it.
2007-02-26 08:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Master M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you gotta realize that all men are not the same there are some real men left out there that are in a relationship just because they love you an are gonna treat you with respect but you are the one thats gotta accept that
2007-02-26 08:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard.i can nvr stop feeling dat way abt myself..resulting in arguments wit my b/f evrytime..i hav nvr had better luck wit men myself..and ryte now i think im losing him as well..i wan 2 c him all the time..but i guess this is being clingy..i guess dat is also a reason of me losing him..my relationship is so unstable..i guess juz hav 2 understand him dou..u dun wanna lose him ryte...i noe you dun..neither do i..good luck gal!
2007-02-26 08:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by p3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control your feeling! You will not loose him if he really love you.
2007-02-26 08:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rizalcb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋