All my friends are jerks.. and they dont care only for themselves..
Is it me that I don’t know how to pick the right people or what can it be??
2007-02-26 00:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not you most people now are like that.. trust me your not the onle person with that one problem.. all you can do is forget about friends right now and focus on yourself.. especially if it seems that everyone you become friends with are the same..
2007-02-26 00:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is a selfish jerk at sometime or other. Maybe you do pick bad friends in which case it may be time to figure out what's important to you and try to find friends that meet those expectations. Or, more likely, you may just be expecting to much from the friends you have and it may be time to find new expectations to match the friends you already have.
2007-02-26 08:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably pick friends like that because you are desperate for them. Not saying being desperate for a social life of any kind isnt normal, but its most likely the reason why you pick friends like that.
As time passes by, you quickly see that the "Friends" you dont need will filter out of your life in time, and only those who are worth being friends with will be left behind.
2007-02-26 08:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes as human we are attracted to people that are honestly bad for us. Try hangin' out at a different place to meet a different type of personality. Example : if you hang at a club maybe, try going to a coffee shop or park.
Remember this if someone is truly your friend they will always be honest with you & they will be there when you need a support system.
2007-02-26 08:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cajun_ Creater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r right.
U r not able to pick the right 1.
I'll help u 2 choose good friends.
To test a person if he or she is good or not see how he or she behaves with the people who r lower in standards than themselves.
If they behave good with them then they good 1s if they behave rudely or carelessly then start walking towards ur home and a good sleep.
U'll surely find good friends 1 day.
Bye.
2007-02-26 08:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find people who have the same thoughts as you. Don't worry, it is not you, I had the same problem, too, and now I have great friends. Just don't give up hope, Look around, and talk to people, you'll find some friends sooner or later. Good Luck! Hey, maybe we could be friends?
2007-02-26 08:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by fish6776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love your friends, and you can let your friends be human enough to have their own negative human tendencies. The only genuine emotion you can count on is 100% love or 100% anger. Be a good friend and dont expect the best from your friends. And besides its kind of egotistical to proclaim yourself the most righteous one amongst your friends.
2007-02-26 08:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by maguathehearteater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be like a jerks too? ask yourself! Better find the new friends. But don't show to them that you hate them even you don't want to be their friend. Take the good step..
2007-02-26 08:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rizalcb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have a bad sense in judging people...
But there is also a saying that alike attracts alike so maybe you gotta change to get the right kind of friends...
In that sense remember a true friend is a friend in need.. ^_^
2007-02-26 08:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this myself and it seems that we are somehow attracted to a certain type of people. I had to totally change what and where I did things and met new people that did not fit in the same catagory. Good luck.
2007-02-26 08:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think all of your friends are jerks then it's time to start looking at yourself for answers.
2007-02-26 08:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋