My bf of about 10 months while driving home from work in the morning a decided to look around for his ex. gf who lives in another town on the way.At 7 a.m because he knew she used to walk the dog around that time?He then asked her to hang out and attempted to hook up (sex with her) but she turned him down.Was she just a booty call or does he have feeling for her?They had no contact for 6 months till 2 days ago!From my understanding they dated about 6 month and went through a pregnancy/miscarriage drama.
2007-02-26 00:06:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i confront him or let it go since nothing happened she turned him down?Do you think he will try with her again?He also seemed a little too intrested perhaps jealous when he found out one of our mutral friends new her?and wanted to know if they had done anything?
2007-02-26 00:09:14 · update #1
They were in contact prior to the 6 months but i made him stop!
2007-02-26 00:24:01 · update #2
dump him... if it was a booty call, would you have answered???
maybe she was fantastic in bed...
2007-02-26 00:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like her still has some kind of feelings for her. Why else would he go out of his way to another town and search her out?? If it were 'just friends' thing and checking to see how she is doing, then a phone is a more appropriate option. I truly think that he was more than looking for a booty call. If he was seeking her out, then there is something he is looking that is missing ion your relationship. If you think you have a good chance with the relationship, then seeks answers. Sit down and talk to him. If this is a major issue for you both and this is not the only incident, then it might be time to cut bait and tough it out. Him seeking her out in another town after work (especially for a booty call) is a major concern for me.
2007-02-26 00:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why 6 months? Did you ask him this? My achieveable theories in the back of this 6 month ingredient is that he needs you to think of approximately your determination extra thoroughly to make advantageous that that's what you easily need, or if he's egocentric, he needs the 6 months for himself to work out how his modern dating would be doing in 6 months? the two way, he would not sound like the only for you because of the fact if it have been real mutual love, he could have dropped notwithstanding he had happening and in simple terms be with you. it form of sounds such as you opt for him extra advantageous than he needs you, and that's already a commence off on the incorrect foot on your dating.
2016-10-02 00:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird, but I think the majority of us have gone or are going through this same scenario - Always seems like the grass is greener on the other side.
We have a tendency to day dream that a person we were with in a previous relationship 'was this' and 'was that' when they really weren't much at all or they'd still be here - that's right.
2007-02-26 00:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a player is a player. If he is willing to do this to you now, he won't stop later. Even if you get married, he doesn't respect you or himself enough to control himself. He has made that obvious. If that's good enough for you then just be prepared for infidelity. Not all guys are like that. If I were you I'd try to find one who isn't. I think his behavior is abominable. I would be more forgiving of his behavior if he WAS still in love with her. Either way you should find someone who has a little more integrity.
2007-02-26 00:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by David T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really good question. If i were you i would definitly break up with him. It doesn't really matter if she rejects him or not because she's not your problem he is. he had the nerve to try to get with her again. If you let it go you are leting him know that its okay to try to get with girls as long as the girl respects the relationship you have with him and don't have sex with him. but what about the responsibility he should take because he's with you. he's your man. he supposedly wants to be with you but looking for another. He doesn't sound like much of a guy to me.
2007-02-26 00:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no gurl don't let dat go, u have a right 2 kno y he even attempted n da 1st place dats ur bf u don't have 2 let it go if its a matter like dat. dat is a problem b/c dat can mislead ur trust the wrong way, i u don't have trust there is no realtionship honey. she was a booty call otherwise he would have tried to be involved wit her a while back.
2007-02-26 00:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by donnetta b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a booty call to me because it was very obvious why he went looking for her although he is in a relationship with you. If I was you I would confront him, especailly if it bothers you!
2007-02-26 00:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by channel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got turned down but why bother to stay with a man that is looking for booty calls when he has what he needs right in front of him
2007-02-26 00:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by lazounes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is a good guy for you as you already know he is popular with women and a player..you should be used to his straying eye as he is doing this is front of you. So just say " have fun mate..and so will I" Then go shag some dude and rub his face in it...turn about is fair play
2007-02-26 00:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of him why wouldn't you say anything to him.He is your b/f and if he is trying to have sex with his ex then something isn't right get rid of him, he is a cheater and stop trying to justify his reasoning drop the loser.Booty call my but he would rather be with her then you ( Hello Wake UP )
2007-02-26 00:14:04 · answer #11 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋