Why is it if you have a husband in the Millitary, And you and him are separated and have a child together that he dosnt have to send you any money and can come to your house and take all your stuff and take another child on the base and pretend that its your child and have another woman pretend as if she is me and get away with it? I have talked to the Jag and everyone else so why is there not any one on my side.
2007-02-25 23:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by brenda72804@sbcglobal.net 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I don't quite understand what has happened here. But it seems your husband is trying to get out of paying child support.
What I would do if I were you, is hire a civilian attorney. If you cannot afford one, sometimes state's social services provide legal assistance in cases such as this. Get a DNA test ordered, and then get a court order for child support. With that information, you can force him to pay, whether he wants too or not. With a court order in hand, you can take it to base Disbursing and have them allot the money from his check.
2007-02-25 23:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by royalpainshane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you aren't devorced yet. They really can't get a military ID, though, since you need an actual picture ID. I suggest you get that divorce finalized ASAP, get your child support going through, and maybe alimony if he was supporting you, and you had no idea that he was "unhappy in the marriage."
Also start documenting everything. Take inventory on what is yours and what is his.
I'm sorry that this is happening to you. Things will pick up.
2007-02-26 07:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ammie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a military thing, it is that you haven't done what you need to take care of the situation. You need to file for divorce or separation in family court. You need to have a court determine paternity, then they will decide the amount of child support to be paid. Until then, most guys aren't just going to pony us random cash to you. Once you have a award letter of child support, your attorney and they court can forward it to his command if he still doesn't pay then they can attach his LES. Just asking for him to pay money is not going to work. Go to court!
2007-02-26 11:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I think gym is right and I am a military wife. In my experience the military is going to tke care of their own first and like most things in the military it is way too political on the inside. Everybody knows everybody. Go off base and find you an attorney. Most places will listen to your case first before they charge you a fee.
2007-02-26 08:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by txmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your husband NCO or the NCOIC... and if that fails talk to his CO and if no one helps you talk to an outside lawyer get him convicted on the outside they will also convict him in the military its a nice little double jeopardy thing they got going on! oh and get a divorce they will find out about it, and they will make him pay child support!
2007-02-26 18:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by ms.jackson... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get a lawyer, call local bar association they should be able to direct you to someone. Or try your area's Human services office.
Good luck to you and your child.
2007-02-26 07:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by DEMMY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a complaint in the local court.
If he is doing as you say, he's committing fraud.
If the military won't go after him, the civilian court system certainly can.
2007-02-26 07:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to a lawyer off base
2007-02-26 07:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by takeemout01 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer..the military isnt going to help you..you need the state goverment to help ,the military helps its own..
2007-02-26 07:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i duno but thats damn mean
2007-02-26 07:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋