Nowadays people think that they should seize the day! And try who ever possible before marriage because after marriage they will be limit. (if there is any limitation!). Are we allowed to leave like animals? For friendships we all have our own criteria and we avoid people who are not compatible with the values we believe but many people always mess around their opposite sex and with out minding any criteria try to satisfy their sexual need while they are not minding to their criteria about the kind of people they should have relation with. Is sex just a fun? Or the highest level of friendship and trust to some one we love and are loyal to?
Please do not answer me based on religious beliefs. I am looking forward to hearing some idea based on logical reasons.
Notice that my question is not about safety maters in sexual relationship, only ethics and just just based on logical reasons.
2007-02-25 23:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by ta2aa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look dear it's the life. they change the pure love to othe love, they change the word they change the heart they change the people...
i am arab christian living in nazareth,ISrael, i believe that true love hard to find, but maybe he can find u... i can touch the love from my family, and from my friends... but i didn't find the right person to share with me the same love, because if i love person i give him all my heart, but in these life can't find that... why that because many reason :
1) media shows about cheating allot, and the person saying to himself what the wrong with me i can cheat why not.... it's seems like 90% of the new marriege get divorce and they want to life they life, because they don't know the meaning of the marriege before...
2) the family effect the person that u are man u can do everything no one limit u, the family takes place the the person get the freedom and he never need it and don't have limit to it, or can't stop
3) friends always effect the person, saying live your life man, go around sleep more than u can, tomorrow u will get married and be limit, but it's not ture, because it's in himself want to go out more than one women, these guys never be satisfy... so they telling my wife dont want to sleep with me thats why i want to sleep with other girl...
4) the socity effect, everyone want to be include in this socity that want to be like them, if the new married couples go out and the man have g.f, i want to the same, it's immtate eachother...
5) fashion, it's the fashion now and i am in the fashion to cheat to have other girls in my marrige and i am in the fashion....
i just wondering why in the church saying we live with each other in every stition and when the stiotaion get worse they can't live with each other... i have more to tell , if u want me to tell more ... good luck i wish to help u :-)
2007-02-25 23:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said a lot but I will just say this about that
Its not what you do in life that you regret but what you did not do.
Forget all the ethics and common sense and physiology mumble jumble double talk and get some experience with different partners or you will forever be ignorant
2007-02-26 07:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have some experience with others before going into a marriage, but that doesn't mean you have to experience all others. You should still be particular about whom you have sex with, and don't use people "just for fun".
2007-02-26 07:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is good. Do what you feel comfortable with. Sex is the Lord's way of allowing us to have fun without the use of mind altering chemicals.
2007-02-26 07:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by dank_vile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allowed by who??? Who is the sex authority?
2007-02-26 07:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some to ur senses la, will ur wife be happy when u tell her that u have done with tons of girls b4 u marry her........
2007-02-26 07:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Adrian T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your choice
2007-02-26 07:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you.
2007-02-26 07:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋