My ex partner have been working on getting back together. We have been broken up for a year. She says she can't understand why It bothers me so much that she speak's & see's her ex. She says they are just friends. She says she loves me & that her heart belongs to me. Her ex gives her money & gave her $5,000 to buy a car with. Do I have reason to feel threatened by this, expecially when she hides it from me or how do you explain this to her that it bothers me that she does this behind my back & takes money like that???
2007-02-25 23:08:39 · 10 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's your Ex for a reason, and you should keep it that way.
This woman may love you, but her actions obviously leave something to be desired. She sounds like she's using and stringing along her other ex, I mean who gives someone 5k to buy a car for no reason? Is that really the kind of person you want to be with? Especially if she's lied about it and hidden it from you.
You have red flags going up everywhere and for good reason. Trust your instincts and don't get back together with her. This problem will not just magically go away, even if she "swears" not to talk to her ex anymore. It's all to fishy, save yourself the heartache.
Good luck
2007-02-25 23:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if some ones hung up on their ex its better to let them go. If they trully love and care for you they would not need that ex to be apart of his/her life.
I was in a relationship like that, it lasted for years, in the end if felt like I just worked so hard trying to make some one happy when they couldn't even see that I was there cos they were too busy being hung up on their ex... Weird thing is now Im out of that relationship and my ex is now hung up on me, I feel sorry for his girlfriend and I told him I won't that person, hopefully his new Gf isn't as stupid as me!
2007-02-26 07:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she doesn't think there's anything wrong with talking to her ex because she's using him! In no way is it acceptable to take money of any amount from your ex!
And, if she really loved you, regardless if they were just friends, she would end her friendship with him.
If she really loved you, it would be your feelings that come first, not her feelings for this 'friendship'
Dump her, and move on.
2007-02-26 07:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by emay02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I am thinking she might be wanting both worlds. Listen to the little voice in your head. If you are hearing words of warning, heed them! Step lightly and a little to the side, meaning take a look from all sides of this picture. I have a suspicion she might be cheating on both of you.
2007-02-26 07:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by altes_jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry such things happen in a fragile society. We, in India do not encounter such situations where your ex is getting money from her ex and she says she still loves you. It looks very hypothetical and absured.
2007-02-26 07:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by KB M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run or get a cut of the money
2007-02-26 07:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by emmf98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to explain
just say because it is true and everyone will felt the same way
2007-02-26 07:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel you are still to trust her. Tell her your thinking & ask her to win your confidence.
Getting more broad minded would alswo help you.
2007-02-26 07:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. what u r thinking is absolutely right.
2007-02-26 07:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor......Don't get involved with her again.She is attached to her ex.Good luck.
2007-02-26 07:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋