I like a Girl a lot and she likes me tooo but she dosent say it out .She calls me daily and talks to me for hours and hours and msgs me every 1/2 hour and tells all her personal stuff and problems to me...
I feel like telling her that i Love her and want to take the relationship to the next level. But I know tht She dosen't want to take it to the next level even though she wants bcos of difference in relegion and her family are against it. I dont have a problem with relegion ...but i wish tht our love comes true.
Wat shud i do Shud I just ask her directly wether she loves me or not .... Or just Wait longer and woo here till she tells it out .... or just try to avoid her bcos i know her answer would be no ..and i cant take tht answer !!! i really want her badly
Please help me out ppl.... :-(
2007-02-25 22:40:16 · 17 answers · asked by Rohit Anand M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should go n speak to her directly.she loves u too but gettin a positive answer from her is not easy for u but u have 2 conveince her nd show her that how u feel abt her,sum sentimental talks will helps u 2 achieve the target.just remember one thing that her first answer is may be no nd after hearin it don't loose ur heart becos u know that she likes u too nd just showing attitude
2007-02-26 00:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush. girls r like that it wud take some time for u to get her say it and feel she loves u. be friendly and get introduced to parents first as her friend. u can ust checkt fo ronce by not relying back to sms or her calls. just one day will make her go bonkers and she wud shot at u the next day. tell her that u did it by purpose to see her love. and now its clear to both of u that u both r in love. thats why all these feelings coming up. love is blind it shud not see religion and family background.
make sure u r cool with her parents slowly and steadily. they will feel u r the right person for her. meanwhile keep loving eachother. u got to do lot of work man
2007-03-01 04:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by slv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't belive in religion but do ur parents also not belive in religion. In what way u need her badly? If she say she love u, whether u will marry her ? Her parents will refuse this relationship but whether ur parents will accept her. If both of ur parents oppose this relationship, then what will u do ? Will u leave her half way?
There will be many questions and difficult circumstance. If u really think, u love her, then first of all get ready for the circumstance which will come in future, then go ahead. Just don't spoil ur and her life.
2007-02-25 23:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any longer something incorrect with rejecting somebody. you have a reason. If she would be in a position to't handle it, this is her undertaking. you may desire to have been truthful in the 1st place, and in case you prefer to be a guy approximately it, you will tell her the real reason you mentioned no, and tell her you're going with this different lady. or you are able to take a seat at homestead like somewhat ****** and not pass when you consider which you're afraid some drugged out chick which you form of care approximately could get her thoughts injury by utilising you attempting to stay your existence. What with regard to the 2nd lady? How will she sense once you reject her?
2016-10-02 00:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to her and find out if she really loves ou. if it is positive ask her if she is willing to take up the difficulties that may arise from the relation ship. You too if you are ready to face the world go ahead and there is no turnig back once you have started.So have a straight tak before you start a true and faithful relationship.
2007-03-05 16:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude heres the thing...this gurl jus wants friendship, a close friendship mayb..if she was interested in you she probably be askin you out or atleast talk sumthin interestin instead of dumping all her problems on your head...she said the family thing jus so tht u could back off a bit..i mean seriously how does family come in here..if she really loved you(cos love knows no boundaries nd **** like that) or was atleast interested she would hav defenitely gone out wit u on a date or sumthin...nd did u even ask her out?! all i can say you are assuming too much bro..this aint true love..ur imagining stuff..
or if you sure about ur feelings then ask her out..see how it goes..dosnt work out den move on wit your life coz this girl dosnt deserve a wait...
2007-03-04 19:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by xenon_36O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are of tender age and it is hidden in your desire to have sexual relation with her. This is disastrous and I hate this idiotic habit of the new generation. Have patience and be characterful and let others be characterful. One should not behave like other species of the earth. Human should behave like human or else they should surrender their brains to the almighty and take birth in the form of other species so that they can have sex and only sex day and night. What is love , had any person of this generation knows, probably they have so poor understanding of this word that they treat it as synonymous of sex. Dear learn and go into the shelter of Religious books like Ramayana, Mahabharta and other mythological books which will shape your brain and character too as by-product. Goswami Tulsidas definition of love is :
"Maar khayn aru meen ke, khayen adhik pyas.
Balihari wa prem ki, muyen meet ki aas!"
There is no other definition of love better than this in this universe in my view.
2007-03-04 02:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by pk b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should really think what "badly" means in the dictionary of ur life. Is it really worth it? As ppl say there are lots of fish in the ocean. But face the truth, eventhough today's a modern world, religion is and will be one huge barrier. I think u two should just remain as friends, strictly friends. you may not think u'll regret it now but ppl change over the years. so, its still up to u
2007-02-25 22:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by MusicSeeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could tell her that you love her and then woo her till she says yes....Not force her in any way or rush her to decide.... Let her know how you feel and let her take her time to decide but while she is deciding you can woo her...
2007-02-25 22:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her, then tell her that you love her. Then put your finger over her lips or kiss her and tell her not to reply until she thinks about how she feels towards you. Tell her to forget about religion for a moment and just think about how she feels inside!...good luck!
2007-02-25 22:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋