My girlfriend wants me to spend all my free time with her and I can't. I need sometimes to spend time alone.( read my books , draw, paint, etc)
2007-02-25 22:39:57 · 3 answers · asked by dragoshman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her that you love her company and spending time with her but you need some time with your thoughts as well at least you will have more to talk about with each other if you aren't spending every waking hour together.
Me and my b/f are glad to get space away from each other and go out with friends it makes a healthy relationship.
2007-02-25 22:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds funny but i will say it anyway do you remeber the band chicago they had a song i dont remember the title but the words are everyone needs a little time away the real answer is have you been together long? and if you just tell her that you need some you time she sould understand if not then truthfully run
2007-02-25 22:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by hakaes24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her like it is. Tell her that you will see her on certain days and the other time you want for yourself. If she cant respect that you need to nurture your soul you should leave her. She will most likely be clingy and paranoid down the line with lack of trust.
2007-02-25 22:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋