i have been sleeping with him, he comes home, he tells us we are family. but after all this confrontation he rang the other girl 1st. told her nothin was happenin between us. this girl tells me they are making plans and she does not believe what i am telling her. all this happened last night. he tells me i shout at him all the time and i have pushed him away. is he serious about us or should i just move on
2007-02-25 22:23:42 · 31 answers · asked by toni o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Divorce him.
2007-02-25 22:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on a short paragraph I am in no position to answer questions about your life or judge the situation, you are on your own for that one.
However, I can only suggest you put the welfare of the child above anything else and that any decisions you make are well thought out and the kind you are unlikely to regret because they were rash or poorly considered.
Sometimes what can seem like the worst thing in the world at the time can a few years later look like the best thing that could ever have happened through the opportunities it has created.
2007-02-25 22:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. My ex did the same. He walked away from me and my son and kept saying he wasn't seeing anyone when he was, he then kept ringing me and coming back trying to have sex with me but all the while still seeing this other woman. So he was having his cake and eating it basically and would try and put the blame on me whenever i spoke to him about it. So i walked away and didn't give in. The phone calls stopped, he stopped coming over and was left with the woman he left me for. Bad call because she was constantly checking up on him, took all his money her kids disrespected him and then made certain false accusations against him when he left her. He can't get rid of her now and knows I'm not interested. Be strong and move on for the sake of your child, he/she doesn't deserve to be in the middle of all of this. Good luck x
2007-02-25 23:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU REALLY SHOULD MOVE ON IF YOU KEEEP TELLING HIM YOU NEED HELP WITH THE BABY THEN YOU ARE GIVING HIM THE POWER TO COME AND GO AS PLEASED AND YOU SHOULD NOT DO THAT NOW IF YOU WANNA BE WITH HIM MAKE HIM WANNA BE WITH YOU HERES HOW START PUSHING HIM AWAY MISS A FEW CALLS BE GONE DONT ANSWER NO QUESTIONS , GET YOUR HAIR AND NAILS DONE SHOW HIM A DIFFERENT YOU AND TRUST ME AND MOST OF ALL STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM HE WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON AND WILL COME RUNNING ,BUT DONT SURENDER TO HIM QUICK OR HE WILL BE DOING THE SAME THING
2007-02-25 22:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get right rid of him.. and on't entertain him..
He'll realise what he's lost when it's gone and if the other girls got any sense she'll do the same..
You dont need an insensitive man messing with your head and playing with your heart strings.. you hvae a baby to think about... a more important addition to your life... put that child as priority and get rid of him.. He's treating you like dirt and it's only gonna get worse if you don't stand upto him..
Have some self respect and get rid of him before he breaks both yours and your babys heart and life..
b x
2007-02-25 22:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by neeneeuno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think, he's banging some one else. Unless you want herpes I suggest you find some one faithful. But seriously you need some one who will be there for you and your baby; not someone that makes some b*i*t*c*h his priority. His kid and baby mama should come first. If he was serious he would be faithful. You deserve better, it will hurt for a while but imagine what life would be like with your soul mate.
2007-02-25 22:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just see this guy as a guy who enjoys 2 cookies and does not want them to turn stale.
You should sit down with him and really confront him on the situation, tell him what you think, and what he really wants from life.
His answer will surly be the reality, non committal relationship, and enjoyment in life.
Leave this S.O.B. and enjoy life for yourself...
2007-02-25 22:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by kirsun10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! Obviously this guy thinks you're just a booty call. Ever heard of a GOOD guy who knocks his gf up and then shacks up with her just to have sex? No? THAT'S BECAUSE HE'S A NASTY A** PLAYA!
Get your act together and find yourself a better situation. You don't need some sorry punk playing with your heart.
2007-02-25 22:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i think you need to move on, you cant bring up your child around someone like that, and plus it wont be a nice environment for the kid if you two are always arguing
xxx
2007-02-25 22:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is a baby father!!
Oh you mean my child's father!, Just move on he obviously isn't any good stringing you along like that. Hopefully you will meet someone who will love you and your child as if his own
Good luck xx
2007-02-25 22:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out now! if he will cheat now you have a child together then he doesn't want a family. Sad, but true!
It will hurt now, but when you have a new man you will realise how much better you deserve to be treated!
2007-02-25 22:55:44 · answer #11 · answered by cute s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋