I have a very close friend whom I have developed strong feelings for. I have tried to avoid her for a couple of months and hope the feelings go away but to no avail. Every time I see her I feel such a looser because I can communicate my feelings towards her. I do not want to lose her especially if she spooks at my advances. Should I go ahead and bet it all or should I live with the knowledge that I can not ever ever have her
2007-02-25 22:08:52 · 8 answers · asked by Fave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her how you feel. If she loves you, great.
If she does not, at least you told her how you feel and now she knows that there is love in your heart and not hers.
All the best. Love is a beautiful thing and it must be shared and told even if the other person does not feel the same.
Love and don't expect her to return but definitely tell.
2007-02-25 22:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you can take the pain of regretting one day that you were never able to tell her your feelings? Afterall, you'll just being honest to yourself by telling her how you feel. If she'll hate you for that, at least you tried. Isn't it better to accept losing by trying rather than losing her and you never did anything?
2007-02-26 06:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Maricor D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
byu now u wud ve got a hint of whether she likes u to an extent or not.. if she likes u then go ahead n tell her... it 'll make her think abt such a relationship between u... else find out abt her thots n then propose, only if u r sure tat she doesn't detest u... cos it can b hurting...
2007-02-26 06:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to know if you two can be together or not than not knowing at all. go for her but not too quickly, drop little hints and try to make her feel a little special but nothing too fancy. if she tells you to stop then she doesnt want to be more than friends, just go for it man you have nothing to lose.
2007-02-26 06:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her if she is single and explain to her how you feel you never know she might feel the same way and is afraid to admit it
good luck
x
2007-02-26 06:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mal S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must tell her how you feel. Otherwise you will regret it. I have had this problem before and did not tell the person and now regret it.
2007-02-26 06:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by interestiblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i will just said to her. if she said will think frist you have chance but if she said no just stop like her.
2007-02-26 06:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try again friend! I encourage you all the time,... :)
2007-02-26 06:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Chucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋