when is to quick to say the big L word or is it a case when you feel it say it??
2007-02-25 21:55:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is just a general question for other peoples views iam happily married after saying i love you after about 3-4weeks
2007-02-25 22:03:29 · update #1
i think so but i mean you dont wanna scare the person away, i knew i loved my husband the minute i met him but i didnt tell him that for a few months when i knew he wouldnt freak, but i think the important thing is not to expect him to say it back just because you have said it, he may not feel that way yet and when he does say it you'll know he means it.
2007-02-25 22:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by starburst81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel it in your heart, you say it.
This depends solely on the relationship and the status of it though. If this is just a fling between some guy, it might just scare him off. If both of you are trying to have a serious relationship, you say I love you the second you feel it in your heart.
2007-02-25 22:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Rhythm Nation 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truly feel it, say it. You should have butterflies in your tummy everytime you think of the person, and want to be with them allways. You should feel as though you want to take care of them and you would do anything for them. Good luck
2007-02-25 22:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never to early. If someone is afraid to be loved they have mental issues that need sorting out. Don't be afraid to say I Love you. It sounds nice.
2007-02-25 22:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say it far too much and think that I have no love left to give..... thats what happens when you let yourself love someone only to get hurt eventually you have no love left to give....
2007-02-25 22:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure of what your feelings are. Can you distinguish between love and lust? Do you have rose colored glasses on? What IS love to you?
2007-02-25 22:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell in love after 2 days and i tell him all i love him every day, sometimes more, and he does with me. it depends on the situation.
2007-02-25 22:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you really love the person, and your willing to risk something for him, and when you think you would like to spend eternity with him
2007-02-25 22:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by xpsihateyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it when u feel it but don't always expect it to be said back
2007-02-25 22:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by little miss sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it pop out when youre not thinking about it...otherwise its kind of contrived anyways....;0)
2007-02-25 22:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋