i am now 28 have had a few relationships which lasted few years now been single for 16 mon ths and still not found anyone i am thinking of joining web dating sites is that sad and can you really find miss right on them ?
2007-02-25 21:33:06 · 33 answers · asked by djsteveo212001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude don't worry u will find someone.....................
in ur life.............
2007-02-25 21:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't we all scared of that hun??
Where u from?
I'm 22 and have been single for over a year now, but i like the feeling of being single, it means u can do what u want when u want and not have to make sure its not upsetting anyone. on the other hand there is those cold night when u just wish u had someone to cuddle into, and wake up with in the morning.
more often than not, when ur not looking its when u will find what u want. try to focus on something else, like a hobbie or a new path in ur career. thinking about being lonely all the time will just depress u and make u seem less appealing to other people. just forget about looking for miss right and get out there, be urself and enjoy life, someone will spot u and think, 'god, bet he's a good laugh, seems so happy' thats when u'll get the offers babe.
Dating sites are good for company, but remember people always come across as something they're not even if they are 100% truthful, u paint a pic of what u want them to be like, expressing feelings and emotions over the internet is very hard to do.
CHIN UP, KEEP SMILING AND SHE WILL FIND U!!
GOOD LUCK BABE.XX
2007-02-25 21:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shoe_Addict 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...i dont know if you can find miss right on a dating site...ive never tried one...but i dont see why not. I have been on my own for almost 2 1/2 years and i know that its hard not to feel the way you do sometimes. Its ok to be on your own but i know it can be lonely sometimes...dont worry though you will meet someone and it always happens when youre not looking...
the thing about sites like these and dating sites is that when you talk to each other through email or messenger or even phone...you'll find you get to know a lot about each other quite quickly, and make a lot of effort to make that contact...you probably talk more than the average married couple,lol...so if you want to join a dating site do...i dont think the same stigma is there nowadays...lots of people use them...
good luck with all of it...and try not to feel too lonely...;0)
2007-02-25 21:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you feeling that everyday it seems like you have been hitting the Jackpot when work is fine, you had a good sleep, you ate well, your hung out with your friends and you feel great - but you still find something missing in you?
Broaden your horizons!!! May it be in real life or on web dating sites....you'll be surprised that people will just come out of no where and start entering your life.
Just be patient. Maybe you and your future partner have not crossed each other's path yet and rushing it will not get you anywhere closer. Take baby steps and you may find yourself meeting the actual woman of your life. All the best.
2007-02-25 22:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have good news for you,
You not alone like this. There's lots of girls and guys have the same feeling like you too out there.
The best is join some club or gym, something that you love to do for yr free time. Be friendly maybe you will get one a friends or mate. If you try all the net dating web, you are not sure what kinda person out there. Be more socialize more helpful around the area. Who knows what happen. You wont be alone anymore.
2007-02-25 21:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the women on those dating sites seem to have the same boring interests. Holidays in the Med, dining out, drinking wine, going to the gym... yawn.
I'd join a dating agency if the women were up for sharing a bag of chips on a park bench and throwing Skittles at people from the back row of the cinema.
2007-02-25 22:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OF course you will find someone but finding the 'right' person is the hard part.
Dating websites are fine, and they definately work for some people. I gave it a go on the recommendation of my friend. She met her husband through a dating site and I subsequently met my partner, whom I now live with on 'udate'.
You do need to be careful though because a lot of people on the sites are not genuine, sincere or honest about themselves. There are prostitutes and gold diggers as well as serial adulterers so you have to be quite choosey about who you decide to meet up with. And you have to be honest about yourself too. Give it a try, persevere and good luck!!
2007-02-25 21:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by jimnychris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some genuine people looking for love on dating sights but be care-full as a lot just want fun or just a no strings sexual relationship> it is not sad at all . . . . . . . but i don't think that loneliness is cured when you find a partner to love, I have a partner, family and some really good friends and still get lonely, what i am trying to say is you need to look with in to cure your loneliness.not to others
2007-02-25 21:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone - probably when you least expect to. I've found that all the time you're looking you never find anyone. If you just relax and enjoy your single life you'll probably find that special someone will find you. I found my partner through a chat site and a friend met her future husband on a dating site - these sites are great as long as you are realistic and don't expect everyone to be honest with you.
2007-02-25 21:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st: 28 yrs old is STILL YOUNG! 2nd:You would be amazed at how MANY solid relationships are formed when YOU AREN'T EVEN LOOKING for a partner!!! Joining a Web Dating Service is NOT sad at all! I have heard that "eHarmony" is the BEST,,,also "Dr. Phil"(if that means anything to you) endorses it as the best and it's not a rip off. If you have the $ to spare, give it a whirl...whatcha got to loose?!?! MOST IMPORTANT JUST ENJOY LIFE, YOU WILL FIND LOVE WHEN IT'S MEANT TO BE! Sending you best wishes.......
2007-02-25 21:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 24 and i was single for a year after splitting with my bf of 6 years.
i thought i was gonna end up alone and lonely but i met a really nice lad and been with him for 3 months now.
i tryed those internet dating sites and they didnt work for me because there were so many liars on there.
if u r going to do one go on one where u have to pay as it will be more serious.
good luck, ur only 28 and im sure miss right is out there somewhere.
2007-02-25 21:37:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋