WHY'S IT ALWAYS COCKY BLOKES JUST LOOKING TO GET SOME THAT APPROACH GIRLS THAT LOOK HOT & CONFIDENT? ARE NICE BLOKES INTIMIDATED OR DO THEY JUST PREFER SIMPLER GIRLS?
2007-02-25 21:09:01 · 23 answers · asked by tupac4evaa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOME OF U R JUST GIVING ME ASSUMING THAT IM TALKING ABOUT MYSELF!? DID U BOTHER ASKING?!
2007-02-25 21:27:48 · update #1
^*giving me a hard time...
2007-02-25 21:34:17 · update #2
Nice guys are probably a little more intimidated by you. Maybe you should try and talk to guys that you find attractive and nice and quit waiting. Try changing your clothes maybe? If you are getting unwanted attention it sould be cause your showing revealing parts? Not to say you cant dress how you want but you are giving off some kinda vibe that makes jerks come talk to you. Just a thought
2007-02-25 21:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 22:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice blokes tend not to have the same traits as players. Players are generally more confident, cocky and socially aggressive.
Now to a player a particularly sexy girl who isn't just naturally attractive but is dolled up and dresses the part in many eyes wud be the counterpart to a player. She's a conquest, a girl that is very hot and there to have fun so the natural attraction and approach occurs between her and the male equivalent.
Why do players approach these girls more than "nice blokes"? Cuz nice blokes aren't as socially aggressive or confident, there is intimidation there, and the fear of not only rejection but the fear of appearing foolish. so nice blokes looks for nice girls with whom they feel they have more in common with and and are more comfortable approaching.
That's not to say nice blokes don't like the really sexy girls, but really sexy girls may appear unattainable and unapproachable to "nice blokes" so the chase less likely to be takin up by someone who lacks the belief that they can get whoever they pursue..
2007-02-25 21:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are WAY to intimidated... we need you to seek us out.. also we tend to find that you sexxy girls are complete and total bitches because that's how things go when you look good. another thing is that if a girl is good looking it usually conversation wise like talking to a wall. no imput really.. a nice decent bloke wants a nice decent girl.. The cocky blokes are full of self confidence and fear nothing so they go for it.. and they are usually the ones to go for you. The nice decent ones don't go until they are fairly sure there is a nice person in there somewhere.
2007-02-25 21:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could be that some nice blokes don't have that drive and killer instinct, however, there are nice guys out there that are decent and do have that drive. When that is the case, they look for a girl who is excellent in character and personality (and obviously they have to be attracted to them). I believe they realise that a sexy girl will lose her looks at some point, therefore it's more important to look for a good personality and character, as that will hold the relationship together in the future.
2007-02-25 21:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dave D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a decent bloke and i love sexy girls, its just that a lot of them don't have much about them after their looks and that gets boring very quickly.
2007-02-25 21:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think that nice guys just prefer simpler girls. most nice guys are not looking to just get some and are thinking of finding a girl he can actually have a long term relationship with. therefore.....since society sees dress as a way of self expression......and girls that likes long terms are seen to as girls that dress quite modestly......they tend to lean towards the simpler girls. also, girls that dress more modestly attract less guys to look at parts that should not be seen....which helps the guy trust the girl more in a long term relationship.
2007-02-25 21:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by msweetangelsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you define sexy.
Hotpants and a skimpy top perhaps? Yeah, that's not too obvious, any girl can look really hot wearing that outfit.
Sometimes I'll see a nice looking girl working on the till in somewhere like Homebase and she'll look dead sexy in her work uniform, hair scrunched up on top, bored expression on her face... :)
2007-02-25 22:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, sexy girls go for cocky blokes - so nice blokes don't waste their time.
2007-02-25 21:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by gvih2g2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The nice guys dont think they have a chance or you girls treat them like dirt, ignore them then dump them as friends cslling them perves when they happen to like you or want to do the same stuff you do with the cocky guys.
They want sexy girls ... its the sexy girls who are too pciky and judgemental.
Just ask your guy mates out
2007-02-25 23:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋