Ok so I am in college, and in one of my packed lecture classes of about 120 students, one guy will not stop glancing my way. It has been going on for a half a semester. I usually NEVER approach the guy first. so I do not know what to do. Every time we have class he glances over repeatedly and we catch each others eyes. Urgh..hes had a chance to come talk to me...
So should I just brush it off since he hasn't talked yet?
2007-02-25 21:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by ic@ndy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he is obviously interested in you. maybe he is just shy or afraid of rejection. especially since he's been checking you out for about half a semester and you're not showing any sign of wanting attention.
men hate rejection.
2007-02-25 21:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's shy and intimidated by you. If theres 120 people in the class and he's staring at you, you definitely got somethin goin on over at your desk.
It could be that you dont appear approachable. Some guys wont pick up on the sign that you stare back as enough of an opening that you can go talk to him. You just need to make it a little easier for him to approach you. Crack a smile or something less coy.
Remeber, guys dont think like you do. We dont notice the same things and we dont pick up buying signals like you do. You almost have to wear a t-shirt in saying, please ask me out guy over there staring at me.
I think if you have to go talk to him first though, approach it with like an after school study on homework or for this test thing. Let him make the whole date thing his idea.
2007-02-26 05:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are both just really shy. Since its a lecture class, maybe you could take the chance to go sit near him and say hi. If you like him, be assertive he might be a nice guy. If hes a weirdo, just sit with your back to him lol. Good luck
2007-02-26 05:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably shy. Belileve it or not - I'm still very shy and I'm in my 40's - I'm very talk-a-tive and a social butterfly - but when I see someone I'm attracted to - I turn red as a raspberry, get flustered, nervous and usually do something stupid - like trip and fall right in front of him.
If your interested - ask him to meet you at a college hot spot one day. Go for it!!!
2007-02-26 05:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't wanna obsess over this guy, because once you become obssessed, you'll only long for what you don't have. so all you can do now is to break the ice by simply saying hello. once you've done that, you just wait for him to make the first move.
try not to think too much about it, you'll only cause yourself pain...
2007-02-26 05:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by the S'bu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't do that.. just make it easy for him by saying Hello.. Help the poor shy guy out...
I bet you're very pretty, I would talk to you... *wink
2007-02-26 05:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on looking.
but smile real nice when you see him looking your way.
2007-02-26 05:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him ^^
2007-02-26 05:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys like it when girls take the lead go for it girl!!!!!!!!!:D
2007-02-26 05:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and talk to him...
2007-02-26 05:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋