i work on saturdays in the same shop with me mum. there is this guy who is 18 and i totally fancy him. i dont know if he also fancies me but he is always being really nice to me. i dont know if its because of me mum, coz shes a manager there. how do i let him know that i like him without destroying our friendship??? when i asked him, he even gave me his msn. i know that 4 years is a big gap but i really love him. help!! any advice will do.
2007-02-25 21:06:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're MUCH too young to be dating a guy who's 18 when you are 14. You just have a crush on a cute older boy. I dont recommend telling him, it will make things akward for you, him, and your mom when she finds out, cause she will. Just continue to be friends and find someone closer to your age, at least for another few years.
2007-02-25 21:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 14, let me give you some advice, just let him go. There will be MANY guys that you fancy. He is too old. And you don't love him, you just love the attention. If you are 4 years older, then just talk to him. If he likes you, you will just know. He will act different around you than around other girls. Hope that helped!
2007-02-26 05:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by ic@ndy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 4 year gap? So you're 14 years old? I think that you should leave the moves to him.
2007-02-26 05:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dont be too straightforward just take it one step at a time and soon after you guys are like the best of buds he'll realize that he can't live without you
2007-02-26 05:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by strangerthanyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're way too young. 18-14 dont mix and match
24-20 is fine and so is 64-60
so he's just nice. you have a crush. he probably fancies your mom.
2007-02-26 05:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Be direct and don't pussyfoot around. He turns you on and if you do the same to him have a blast. If not move on.
2007-02-26 05:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into it.
Flirt with him. If he flirts back.. you're in
If he doesn't flirt back... keep on flirting...he's maybe just shy.
Oh, and don't flirt all the time, that'll annoy the heck out of him. Do it once in a while.
2007-02-26 05:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋